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User Topic: just found out again
♂ 22832
Member # 22832
Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just found out tonight that who I thought was OM#1, was actually OM#2. So now there have been three affairs during our 17 year marriage. Also she cheated on me when we dated in high-school with four other boys, for a total of seven affairs during our relationship.

[This message edited by Midas at 11:12 PM, February 17th (Monday)]

Me - 37 (BS)
Her - 36 (XW)

OM#1-4 Dday 2/17/2014 pre-marriage
OM#5 - Dday 2/17/2014 <new info>
OM#6 - Dday 4/30/2006
OM#7 - Dday 1/29/2014

DD - 6yo

Filed for D 2/10/2014
D 4/2014
False R 6/2014

Posts: 107 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Texas
♀ 40488
Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 2:33 AM, February 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So so sorry. Glad your kicking her out. You deserve more.. If he just looks at one other woman he's out dying or not

Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 1224
Member # 1224
Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, February 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow Midas. So sorry. Just know you didn't do any wrong and didn't deserve such treatment.

She's a piece of work

You need to go NC as much as you can.

But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17

Posts: 1458 | Registered: Mar 2003
♂ 40392
Member # 40392
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, February 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sure hate to hear that man. Stay strong and steadfast and you'll get there.

Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 648 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
♂ 28542
Member # 28542
Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, February 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Read your profile man so sorry. Let her go, you will be much happier in the long rum.

FWIW- if you don't plan on it, sue for full custody and make a point to bring before the court all the sorts of people she has been dating. Protect your daughter. Not introducing romantic partners for X number of years is something that can be written into the D.

Me-40 her-40

DS 6, DD 12
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.

Posts: 3317 | Registered: May 2010
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, February 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hard to find a silver lining amidst the pain, but at least this knowledge helps give you even more clarity as to who she really is. And that can be a blessing in its own way.

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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