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Midas posted 2/17/2014 23:06 PM

Just found out tonight that who I thought was OM#1, was actually OM#2. So now there have been three affairs during our 17 year marriage. Also she cheated on me when we dated in high-school with four other boys, for a total of seven affairs during our relationship.

[This message edited by Midas at 11:12 PM, February 17th (Monday)]

Dreamland posted 2/18/2014 02:33 AM

So so sorry. Glad your kicking her out. You deserve more.. If he just looks at one other woman he's out dying or not

shiloe posted 2/18/2014 08:12 AM

Wow Midas. So sorry. Just know you didn't do any wrong and didn't deserve such treatment.

She's a piece of work

You need to go NC as much as you can.

Uhtred posted 2/18/2014 09:37 AM

I sure hate to hear that man. Stay strong and steadfast and you'll get there.

numb&dumb posted 2/18/2014 09:41 AM

Read your profile man so sorry. Let her go, you will be much happier in the long rum.

FWIW- if you don't plan on it, sue for full custody and make a point to bring before the court all the sorts of people she has been dating. Protect your daughter. Not introducing romantic partners for X number of years is something that can be written into the D.

norabird posted 2/18/2014 11:39 AM

Hard to find a silver lining amidst the pain, but at least this knowledge helps give you even more clarity as to who she really is. And that can be a blessing in its own way.

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