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huskers posted 2/19/2014 14:04 PM

Filed Legal Sep Friday. He will be served today after a month of separation and drama. He's already an angry hot mess, since I am the bad guy in all this, exposing his whore, changing the locks, moving money. But nothing has changed. He is not willing to work on marriage. He is still with her. Not looking forward to the explosion when he gets served at work, because he won't give me a home address.

[This message edited by huskers at 2:04 PM, February 19th (Wednesday)]

nowiknow23 posted 2/19/2014 14:05 PM

((((huskers)))) Is there someone who can be with you today? Stay safe, honey.

WeepingBuddhist posted 2/19/2014 14:15 PM

Let us know you're OK, please?

HurtsButImOK posted 2/19/2014 16:03 PM

(((huskers)))

Hope you are okay.

If you can block his number, dont speak to him. If that is not possible have a response prepared "you can speak to my attorney about that". If you are in fear of your physical safety is there somewhere else you can stay or a brother/male friend who can stay with you?

Hope he is all hot air and bluster and you are safe.

GabyBaby posted 2/19/2014 16:07 PM

((( huskers )))
I agree with the previous posters.
Try to find someone (supportive) to hang out with and do not answer your phone.

nekorb posted 2/19/2014 17:13 PM

You ok?

huskers posted 2/19/2014 19:37 PM

I am ok. Sorry didn't mean to disappear. He sent a nasty text. Then he texted our teen son and said 'mom is trying to get sole custody of you. Sorry if I've disappointed you'.

Nice put your issues on to him. Son replied yes he is very disappointed. Husband says we can talk about it. Son says no. You're the one with the issues not me. Wow. Who is this kid? Lol. My mom says he got his strength from watching me be strong through all this.

And yes... Some friends were also worried about his response and threat to get a locksmith or bust door down. He can still legally do that . One staying night tonight and the other tomorrow. I am truly blessed with a lot of support and all of you.

nekorb posted 2/19/2014 19:47 PM

Be strong. We are with you in spirit!

Shockleader posted 2/19/2014 19:52 PM

But nothing has changed. He is not willing to work on marriage. He is still with her.

You did EXACTLY the right thing! Buckle up, and expect a very bumpy ride. I experienced the same parental alienation crap; these POS cheaters are such pathetic WEAK COWARDS, using their own children as fodder!!!... Do not be afraid, remain resolute, and let the power of your conviction carry you forward.

We are all wishing you the best of luck, and hope for a much better future.

persevere posted 2/19/2014 20:59 PM

Thinking about you huskers and sending you strenght - stay safe.

And, yes, your son is amazing.

[This message edited by persevere at 8:59 PM, February 19th (Wednesday)]

huskers posted 2/19/2014 21:55 PM

Thank you all for the strength and good thoughts . There will be plenty of time to worry and have the roller coaster of emotions. Tonight I am at peace I did the right thing and will focus on my sons and moving forward. Because dammit I'm worth it

[This message edited by huskers at 9:56 PM, February 19th (Wednesday)]