If I was I would say it found him
Been awhile since I have really posted on here, but I do lurk daily To update, the last time I posted it was to wonder why the idiot sent ALL of the papers he was served back to my lawyer without doing anything....he just put everything he was served in an envelope and mailed it all back to my attorney. Because of this I was awarded a default judgement and given everything I had asked for. Just had to go through the 90 day waiting period.
During these last 3 months he told me that he and OW called it quits and he had moved out....almost a year to the day of him asking for a divorce....she was tired of him not helping with bills and other things and the job he had didn't pay very much and he barely had enough to send what he did for me and the kids Funny thing is, is that up until that month I had been paying all our bills, right before their break up I had forwarded the ones to him that he was to be responsible for. I do think he is still trying to get back with her but her stbxbh told me he heard through her 2nd ex that she is dating 3 or 4 guys I can say that I am at 99% of not caring.
If they are together it won't last. Her stbxbh told me she is all about the money, and my ex doesn't have any, and what little he thinks he is hiding from me will be gone soon also, as the bus is turning around.
Divorce is final today (not totally okay with that but getting there ) The part I am okay with is that I get everything I asked for and he has a judgment against him for back SS, education expenses for our kids, and the cost of the divorce. I also get an increase in SS as my kids graduate from school, and the thing that will really piss him off is that he has to bring me back his bike...I get that too
He has been whining to me about how broke he is for the last two months and has not sent me a dime, but CS will go through the state now...and I think my SS might also, at least until my last kid graduates.
Oh, and because he defaulted I wasn't obligated to let him know about court today and that everything is now final. He will find all of this out in a couple days when he gets it in the mail. Hope he found that happy he was looking for.