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User Topic: DD is so stinkin' sweet
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At bedtime tonight, DD asked me if I thought I'd get re-married. I said that I didn't know, but it might happen in the future if I met the right person. She then asked if I would marry dad again. I said no,that dad didn't treat me well, broke promises and really hurt my feelings. I said that if I got re-married I would want someone kind, honest, treated me well, etc.
She then said, I really hope you find someone like that, mommy.

I almost teared up. We always have to walk that fine line of being truthful, but not badmouthing the other parent. I'm really hoping that I didn't badmouth him, but I couldn't not tell her why I wouldn't marry him again. I always tell her that he loves her though and just made bad choices in his marriage.


BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
OW - Hello Kitty the Whore Engaged to the Gnat. I hear the white trash, wedding bells as we speak.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (7), 1 DS (2)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poor sweetheart. There's such kindness in her. Good job, mama.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

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Darcy3
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Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you handled it very well.


Me = BS
Him = WS
3 teenagers
Married 24 years
D-Day: Nov. 10, 2012
Divorced

Posts: 45 | Registered: Jun 2013
BAB61
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Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, February 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You told her the truth, age appropriately....well done! ((Newlysingle&dd)))


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

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Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You handled it well. And yes, so stinkin' sweet!

My boys have asked me on several occasions if they can DJ my next wedding. I think that may be the 10 and 13-year-old equivalent of this conversation.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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