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WeepingBuddhist posted 2/20/2014 07:30 AM

This afternoon is the final hearing for the dissolution (or disillusion as some of my friends who have been through the process call is; they're cards, I tell you). STBX and I will travel there together--yeah, it's like that for us. Lawyer yesterday said it shouldn't take more than 30 minutes, if that. I am certain this is what I want, but it is astounding to me how totally sad I am. We had a great relationship for 17 years (together for 20). The past 18 months have been horrible but also amazing. Every decision I have made since deciding to leave has been supported by friends, work, and out-of-the-blue turns of events at which I would roll my eyes if that shit happened in a Hallmark movie. Anyway, I'd like as many good vibes as possible today. Just because it's right doesn't mean it's not going to suck.

nowiknow23 posted 2/20/2014 07:50 AM

Sending you everything I've got, honey. ((((WB))))

mamazen posted 2/20/2014 07:55 AM

I totally get you.

Will be with you in spirit today.

Give us an update when it's done....

iamsoblind42 posted 2/20/2014 08:18 AM

I am so jealous! I still have 2 months. I will have been M for just over 18 years when it is final and I am sure I will be sad over the loss of what could have been but I will surely not mourn what it actually was. I have a bottle of champagne chilling waiting for April 21st.

I wish you much strength and that there is no drama in the courtroom today. Sending good vibes and I hope it does not suck too bad.

norabird posted 2/20/2014 08:33 AM

Of course you're sad. That's okay and normal. I hope and expect you will find some peace after it's final. Some Hallmark level peace!

Lola7 posted 2/20/2014 09:08 AM

Sending you happy thoughts and love. Let us know how it goes. :)

Darcy3 posted 2/20/2014 09:09 AM

Sending good vibes and lots of (((WB))).

WeepingBuddhist posted 2/21/2014 08:16 AM

It's done! I'm OUT! FREEEEE!

XWH (whoa, that feels GOOOOOD to type) freaked right the fuck out when I told him that next week I am moving and renting out the, wait, no...MY house. I'll be heading out of state to help care for my elderly mother for the next few years.

Thanks for all the good vibes and well wishes!!!!

dmari posted 2/21/2014 12:48 PM

Congratulations!!! FrEeDoM!!!

wonderingbull posted 2/21/2014 13:49 PM

HurtsButImOK posted 2/21/2014 13:50 PM

Congratulations and (((hugs)))

nowiknow23 posted 2/21/2014 13:52 PM

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