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User Topic: The Best Thing I Ever Did...
libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...was listen to all the good advice I got here. :) Thank you to all of you for speaking up. Now, that I'm no longer a prisoner, it was a shame I was living a lie, in pain, and allowing my children to be mistreated. FTG! My job on this Earth is to protect my boys, from anyone! Now, that I've taken a step back, I can see I was being abused, taken advantage of, manipulated, and controlled. I'm stronger than that and luckily I don't need him in any shape or form. It's only been a week, but I feel so free and utterly happy.

So, thanks again everyone, I couldn't have done it without all you, especially Nature Girl, AJ's mom and tushnurse. If it weren't for you AJ's mom, asking me what I was gonna do about "That?" and telling me to get an army, I don't think I would have had the courage to do what I did. I'm so thankful for you ladies, it brings me to tears.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 11:58 AM, February 20th (Thursday)]


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Remember honey, YOU did this! You fought your way to this new place and are building a beautiful life for you and the boys. That's all you, liberty.

Brava!


You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön


Posts: 29684 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, February 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're welcome, but you know what? YOU did it, Liberty. You did the hard work. It takes courage. ((((HUGS))))


Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Topic Posts: 3

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