I know it's easier said than done but it will be soooo much better for you.
And check out the articles at www.baggagereclaim.co.uk, they were a useful kick in the pants for me.
Sending you strength and ((((((hugs)))))
Edited for hugs x
[This message edited by Truly at 4:25 PM, February 20th (Thursday)]
I know how important they can be...those days where you can't even reply cos your heart is in your mouth...
Every virtual hug helps lift your eyes up towards the sunshine x
I also love the fact that hugs are FREE and FREELY given, best gift ever x
6 weeks is not that long.. you are doing all you can to get better..
very few people can just put the past behind them and move on after devastation like this... severe, emotional trauma can be devastating and life altering..... we need time to grieve.....
you've barely had time to process this...
I'm sorry you're having a rough day..... we are here for you!
I am coming up on finding out exactly a year ago..... and I'm a mess...
Running Shoes, definitely. He's wearing some mighty ugly Bastard boots, so your gorgeous BitchBoots can stay in the closet.
I read here on SI say their spouse cheated after many years of marriage
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
There's good news, though - you can survive and thrive. Life gets good again.
Your fiancÚ doesn't sound the least bit remorseful. He doesn't seem to show a single bit of ownership for his problems. He sounds like he thinks it's OK for him to cheat, and he shows no interest in changing.
I agree that you made a mistake in having sex with him recently. Forgive yourself for that - just don't do it again.
You haven't asked for advice on what to do, so I won't say anything about that, but you know what's best for you, I think.