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dumbndumber posted 2/20/2014 16:01 PM

I have been through hell and back and so has my wife. I cheated on her, then her on me, have been separated and living apart for 3 1/2 years!! we have dated other people, relationships, the works. After all of this and reaching the depths of dispair, on the edge of executing divorce papers...we have found a way back to each other. We are in conseling together and dating and it's going really well. For the first time since all this happened we are on the same page together. Its been 4 1/2 years. We are taking it slow but I am probably going to move back in the end of March. No way in hell I thought this would happen. No way. I know we will be OK. I am older smarter and have been through enough therapy to choke a horse.
It was like one day we both looked at each other and realized what each one of us had. I really believe this will work, i still love my wife.

Threnody posted 2/20/2014 16:05 PM

I remember some of your early posts. This update from you made me smile, ear to ear. I'm happy for you both.

Wishing you both the best!

turtle72 posted 2/20/2014 16:19 PM

That is wonderful, congratulations!

Truly posted 2/20/2014 16:44 PM


Awwww....YAY!

karmahappens posted 2/20/2014 17:55 PM

well d n d

That sounds pretty awesome!

Good luck!!

Jls0320 posted 2/20/2014 18:15 PM

That's awesome, I hope it all goes perfectly!

jo2love posted 2/20/2014 19:41 PM

That's wonderful!!

dumbndumber posted 2/20/2014 21:34 PM

Thanks for your well wishes. It's still a long road with a lot of twists and turns ahead. I'm thankful to have made it this far. What a crazy journey this has been. all those long nights of no sleep and desperation I'm sure many of you know the same. Sometimes I look back and wonder how I got through to this point. I will not fuck it up this time.

womaninflux posted 2/20/2014 21:41 PM

I guess this really proves a statement I read on some blog that as long as two people are still alive, there is hope for reconciliation.

CompleteScrewUp posted 2/20/2014 21:44 PM

This is really good news! I am very happy for both of you! It def. gives others like me more hope I wish you two the best for luck and pure happiness!

OnAnIsland posted 2/21/2014 02:10 AM

This is good news. Keep doing the work. I wish you happiness.

blakesteele posted 2/21/2014 06:01 AM

Incredible!!!!!!

My heart is smiling.

Aceofbase posted 2/21/2014 06:16 AM

way to go.

Aceofbase posted 2/21/2014 06:16 AM

way to go.

sinsof thefather posted 2/21/2014 06:44 AM

I remember seeing posts of yours from time to time too, so I'm very happy to see this one. It's great that things are going so well for you and your wife now and I wish you both all the best as you continue to move forward together.

LivinginLimbo posted 2/21/2014 06:49 AM

Congratulations!! I'm friends with a couple who divorced for quite a few years and eventually remarried. They couldn't be happier. I wish you all the best.

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