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WhenWillItEnd (original poster member #12439) posted at 11:47 AM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
In the year 2000, I left my city and moved to CA to be with the wonderful xwife that landed me here on SI. Coming to Silicon valley with no working skill sets or degree, I managed to land a technical gig after some sheer luck and lots of prayers. They(co.) just wanted someone to answer the phone as it was technical support.
My parents gave me 5k and said good luck as I was a walking talking fuck up to that point in my life, prolly still am now :} . It was/is a lot of $ for them. Now that I have a nephew that is going thru the same scenario (gf and without a job), I just wrote him a letter telling him how I am passing this same 5k to him the history behind it and hope that he can fwd this $ to the next family member when he see that they are in need.
I am so bless/grateful for all the things in my life
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 2:41 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
That is really awesome and
I am so bless/grateful for all the things in my life
is an attitude that will take you far.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 5:58 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
I am so impressed that you did this!
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:08 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
That's so awesome, WWIE.
I'm glad that things are looking up for you and that you are in a position to help others in need. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:14 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
Wonderful! Not just that you are in a position to do this, but also that you WANT to do this.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 7:13 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
WhenWillItEnd (original poster member #12439) posted at 7:40 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014
Thanks to everyone for the kind words.
I didn't get this far in my life without people carrying, nursing my hurts, and tolerating me.
Albeit this is one hard road to hoe(infidelity), it changed me to be a better person then prior and more reflective of how and who got me here today and I am forever grateful.
Thanks Again SI
Livingalie2014 ( member #42332) posted at 10:33 PM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Wow. I'm sure your nephew will appreciate it. That's a very cool gesture to help get him on his way. It shows him that someone still believes in him.
In three words I can sum up everything I learned about life: It goes on - Robert Frost
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