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User Topic: My birthday
gypsybird87
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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My birthday today. Equal parts "yay" and "blech".

Yay...

The sun came out for a little while.
I got a sweet card and gift from my BFF and she treated me to a yummy lunch out.
My father called first thing this morning.
Zero contact from XWH, not that I really expected any but I was a little nervous.
Going salsa dancing tonight with friends.

Blech...

Keep thinking about this day last year.
Got an obvious last-minute/zero-thought gift from XWH.
Got a sappy, romantic card from XWH.
Got on a plane that evening and flew to visit my parents for the weekend. I now know that OW was camped out at my house the whole time I was gone.
My mother still hasn't called me today.
I'm older.
I'm grayer.
I'm tired-er. (is that a word? It should be.)

Whatever.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday! Enjoy the dancing!


Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HaPpY bIrThDaY!!! You forgot to add that you are stronger, wiser, and still fucking awesome!


I SURVIVED infidelity. Me 45, DD 20, DS 17
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2835 | Registered: Oct 2012
careerlady
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Member # 16958
Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday! Mine is in 3 days. I don't think I got anything from the Snake last year. Whatevs. Hugs on your mom though what's up with that?


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 949 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy belated birthday!

How was the dancing?


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka Cockwomble (Thank You IgglePiggle!) formerly known as CAT (Colossal Asshat); Married 22 years
D-day: July 2013; D filed July 2014, Divorced 7-27-16
Romans 8:28

Posts: 4612 | Registered: Aug 2013
tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for salsa dancing!
Happy Birthday


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4958 | Registered: Jan 2012
Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday! I hope the yays ended up winning out.

I recently had my 44th birthday. My 42nd was spent in the psych ward after my suicide attempt. It was when I was posting about that that I coined the phrase that later became my tag line: "The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!"

And you, my friend deserve fucking fabulous. Each year you will continue to get fabulouser!


Cheating louse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 13 and 16
DDay: Nov 15/2012
Separated Mar 2/2013 after 17 years married. Will we ever be divorced?

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!


Posts: 2911 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!!


"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 3702 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
gypsybird87
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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the birthday wishes!

Salsa was fun. I go with the same group every Friday and its usually the high point of my week. I'm really glad my birthday (and Valentines) fell on Friday this year.

Headed out with some other friends tonight for dinner, and more dancing. This time it will be country and some West Coast Swing. Sometimes I'm still amazed at how much fuller my life is now that XWH is not in it!

When I got home late last night there was a voicemail from my mom. Not sure why she delayed calling all day, but at least I can stop worrying about her now.

It is a gorgeous, sunny day here today. Will probably take my little dog for a walk. So far the first day of my 45th year has been alright.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HBelatedD!


Me: MH 46
3/26/13: free of serial cheating twat-waffle

Fall 2015: happily in love with the RIGHT man
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Everything is as it should be.


Posts: 900 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: East Coast
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, February 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!!!!


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

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