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User Topic: Called his secret phone
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...heard his voice answer and said nothing. Immature, stupid. But I couldn't help myself. I kind of feel better...maybe a reminder of who he is?

But I REALLY want to call and when he answers say "oh hi mr roarlouder" I wonder how he would react?


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
BAB61
♀ 41181
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you file for the D yet? I know that after the D the only thing I will want to know is my SS, CS and the portion of his retirement I earned in my account on time. Wiped.


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah filed and signed settlement yesterday. Done deal, just have to wait.

I think it's because through all if this I didn't catch him red-handed and I just really want to f with his head.


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
ChoosingHope
♀ 33606
Member # 33606
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Secret phones. God. Brings back memories.

Keep moving forward, (((roar louder)))!


Posts: 1736 | Registered: Oct 2011
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, February 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bailed on a quick weekend away with 2 friends because I thought down time would good... This is proving to be a bad decision!


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you really want to mess with his head call him and be talking to him on his regular phone while you have a friend pranking him on his secret phone!

Or do like I did, I'll PM you!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2501 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
bigskyblues
♂ 36759
Member # 36759
Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Roar, if the D is a done deal I would recommend moving on. The more time and energy you put into worrying about his life is time you take away from improving/enjoying your life. I know the temptation we have all had it and done it but it is counter productive for your healing.

BSB


BH 50s
xWW 50s

Dday1 7-2012
Dday2 8-2012
Divorce 9-2012

4 kids all adults.

Married 22+ years.

I have moved on and life is good!


Posts: 273 | Registered: Sep 2012
33years
♀ 41053
Member # 41053
Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a VAR in his truck and silly WH put minutes on his "secret" phone with it on speaker, so it repeated his phone number that he entered. I haven't called it but at least I do have it for whatever reason. Amazing how well he hides that thing! I've never seen it.


Me (BS) 58
Him (WH) 57
DD July 10, 2013
My Motto: "I'm fairly certain that nothing anymore is certain"

Posts: 73 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Middle of USA
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

+1 BSB.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13869 | Registered: Jul 2011
RealityStinks
♂ 41457
Member # 41457
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, February 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh how I would love to have the number to my STBX's third phone. She has a personal and work phone, and I am 99.99999999999% sure she has another phone that limp dick pays for.

Long story short - I saw her make a call at 9:45 PM, I followed her and OM (they were in separate vehicles) to the house she was living in, I confronted the OM and heard my STBX talking to him on his bluetooth ear piece during the altercation, checked her work phone and personal phone immediately, and neither had a record of a call being made after 6:30 PM that day. So, how was she talking to him?

She says I'm crazy. I guess it doesn't matter now. She can have the 53 year old bastard.


Posts: 414 | Registered: Nov 2013
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