You had a good marriage that you were unwilling to work on to make it great!
You lied and cheated not only me, the person you VOWED to love, honor and cherish, but your children as well.
You don't know what honor is.
You don't know what integrity is.
You have no fucking clue what it means to really love someone. To put them first, to take the less than perfect and accept it as it is.
You hurt me more than you will ever understand because you are too shallow and self-absorbed to ever have the depth necessary to empathize.
I will never be your friend, I will be civil, but if you fucking think I am being 'amicable' you, with your English degree, do not have the least understanding of the word. Use the damn dictionary! dick
When the divorce is final and the papers are signed I do not ever want to fucking see you again. If your daughters ever want to see you it will be in a neutral place. Not my fucking house you asswipe!!
If there are future events that involve our children and THEY want both of us there I will be civil. Do not engage me in social, polite conversation. I will throw your cheating ass to the wolves.
You have killed all the love I had for you. You devalued the one person in your life that did not look at you and see a meal ticket. You think that is how I saw you because of your FOO filters. Not my fault.
You cheated. Not my fault.
You expect people to listen to you whine about me. Was I perfect? No. But then again, neither are you!
You are a waste of space!
Thanks for letting me vent .. I feel ever so much better!
Hitting the like button.
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~
I've said many of those things to my STBX in voice mails, in person, and you're right, wish I HADN't, he didn't get it.
GOD I hate waywards
Amen sister! I had several other points I needed to amen but finger hit the submit button instead of enter! So Amen Sister to the whole post!
[This message edited by myowndystopia at 8:04 AM, February 22nd (Saturday)]
"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
I agree that it is a waste of breath.
I will never understand that THEY can not understand how hurtful what they did was. You are right, they don't have the depth necessary to empathsize because they are so busy worrying about themselves and the impact to them.
Do you ever wonder why you didn't see it more clearly before?? That is what I am struggling with....where the hell was I when I was apparently married to an insensitive, selfish, dishonest and allegedly unhappy husband?