I feel so empowered. I've been in a state of limbo since October when I asked x to move out. He said all sorts of things to keep me hoping. Fellow SIers told me he was hoovering. How right you all were. It finally came out on Friday that he had no intention of giving the other woman up, but he also wanted me. Well not any more!
No more cake eating. I've just sent x an email stating that we should only have contact if it is related to DS & I'll let him know when I have the house up for sale as we have to split that.
At the moment I feel great - I know this feeling won't last but I'm enjoying it whilst it does.