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Is there a check list for those just starting?
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25yearslater posted 2/24/2014 07:59 AM
I have been lurking on this board for a while. I think I am finally realizing that if WH doesn't do the work then true R doesn't work. I've put in a ton of work on the marriage and am still working on myself, but if he isn't honest with himself, it doesn't work.
I'm in the process of setting up initial consultations with L. Is there a checklist, FAQ, or any great resources for starting this process? WH says that he "will always take care of us" but for some reason I just don't trust him. (Insert a sarcastic voice). 
TrustedHer posted 2/24/2014 11:15 AM
In the Healing Library (link is in yellow box at upper left), there is an articles section. It has some basic getting-started stuff for those divorcing.
And feel free to ask any questions you have. Odds are, someone else has the same question and just hasn't asked yet...
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/articles.asp