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User Topic: Reading JustFoundOut Board
♀ 42417
Member # 42417
Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel very conflicted. It breaks my heart to read the posts on the other boards. In some of them, I see the same pain I see in my BH. Truth is, some of those stories have really helped me and yet I feel guilty for that. No one should have to have those stories. No one. I am grateful for this site however.

DDay: 2/01/14

Posts: 31 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Texas
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Member # 34477
Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes the post in the wayward forum really helps me. It's good that you are aware of the pain. I think that it would be bad if you didn't feel bad about the pain.

Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
Exwh married his AP

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.

Posts: 813 | Registered: Jan 2012
♀ 42505
Member # 42505
Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know what you mean - the stories on here make my heart hurt and usually make me cry. The pain and betrayal are palpable. Awful that there are thousands of people that need this site but I'm ever grateful we all found our way here.

Me -WW - 49
Him -BH -45
DD - 1-21-14
no children together
M - 3 1/2 years, together 7

Posts: 46 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: CO
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree. I go there and read stuff and feel horrible that it's the same thing I am putting my husband through. It does help me in a way to understand better since husband is not expressing himself that great.

Me: WW 42 - Him: BH 45
Dday: Confessed 1/12/14 - EA/PA: 8 months
Married: 15 years - 3 Kids(5-13)
It's scary to think you know someone well and then realize you don't~~Even scarier when you realize that person is you!

Posts: 107 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: SW Oregon
♂ 42140
Member # 42140
Default  Posted: 4:44 AM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also agree to see there side. To try and understand as much as possible. I dont think its recommended but I guess in some weird way I am hoping to see if WW ever posts here too. I did advise her to visit to see the impact that the A has on people to make her understand the torture we are put through as a result.

[This message edited by StuckinNJagain at 4:44 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)]

BH-46 (me)
First Dday-2/09
Sec Dday-1/14
Married 17 yrs. Together 26

Posts: 58 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NJ
♀ 35655
Member # 35655
Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It does help me to read, because my WS never found out, and it reminds me of the pain I would inflict if he did. It keeps me on the straight and narrow!

I love this forum, and after taking time off I am back. I really need it.

Posts: 52 | Registered: May 2012
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