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User Topic: It's been a year!
BrighterFuture
♀ 38914
Member # 38914
Content  Posted: 9:46 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't believe it's already 1 year since dday. I used to be called VeryHurtBroken but now I'm BrighterFuture. I'm not where I need to be, but I'm better than what I used to be emotionally.

Quick recap:

Fabolous me:

I was 10 weeks pregnant on dday. Now I have a 5 month old daughter and my son is 2.
I'm still in school working towards my Master's in Health Science.
I made new friends who supported me during my pregnancy, delivery and afterwards.
I have my children with me, the greatest gifts.

Him:

A liar and a cheater.
Has no love, no family, and moved out of state because he claims his job ended and he couldn't find work.
Probably not with the OW. Did I mention that he moved out of state?
Asked me to claim our son on his taxes. He claims to be broke. I said no! "he didn't live with you. And I do not care. Those are your choices. Live with them."

I foresee an even brighter future for me and my children. I never wanted to be a single mother, but I'm strong enough to handle the challenges life throws at me.

[This message edited by BrighterFuture at 9:49 PM, February 24th (Monday)]


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 359 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
PurpleBlueBella
♀ 38579
Member # 38579
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you mama bear!!!! ((Hugs))

Posts: 54 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: United States
Lost15
♀ 40898
Member # 40898
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You sound like you are in a good place. July will be a year for me and I have come so far from where I was but have a long road in front of me. Thanks for sharing. (((hugs)))


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 114 | Registered: Oct 2013
BAB61
♀ 41181
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good on you BrighterFuture! You give me hope!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
BrighterFuture
♀ 38914
Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks SIers. I get my strength and fancy vocabulary from here I have learnt so much in this one year from my experience and all of your experiences.


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 359 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
Jduff
♂ 41988
Member # 41988
Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, February 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I never wanted to be a single mother, but I'm strong enough to handle the challenges life throws at me.

You Rock! Mucho respects to you!


Divorced - 5/23/14
Already in my New Beginning - :)

Posts: 652 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: texas
Topic Posts: 6

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