I honestly don't know what he is thinking but I guess if I knew that I wouldn't be here. Anyway, we have been trying to get a divorce for almost 6 months now and it doesn't seem to be getting any closer. I was willing to work with him in the beginning, although I really didn't want a divorce but didn't have a choice in that. He was unwilling and just had lie after lie, he would have probably been better off had he worked with me then because I was still in a fog. Now I am sick of the crap he is always pulling. My lawyer sends him my proposal, he text me he would like to talk about it and that we could work this out without lawyers, no answer from me. So I receive his counter offer today along with the tax documents so I can file. I get another text asking if I received the documents and the proposal. I say yes I did but I haven't had a chance to look at it, ok I was lying but I wanted it to seem like really didn't have time for him. He replies again that I should take my time and review the proposal and then give him a call so we can talk about it. He says we can agree on everything ourselves without our lawyers and that if I would just work with him the way he has been trying with me it could be over quickly and DS and he could have a relationship again.
All I can say is WTH, you delusional idiot!!! I have tried in the past to work with you and you were too consumed by her and your own agenda to care about me or DS. You thought I would just cower away and take whatever you offered, which wasn't much, and I should be happy with it. You thought I should be happy for you and that I just needed to move on. You are the one who got the lawyer in the first place and filed for D when you said no lawyers and you wouldn't file yet, so I got a lawyer, I can't help that she is smarter than yours. You call working with me changing absolutely every paragraph in my proposal to something entirely different. WTH why would I call you all it will end up in is a fight you f'n douchebag. How the D becoming final is suppose to help your relationship with DS idk. Maybe your relationship hit a snag because you haven't bothered to come see him in almost 7 months. You haven't been to one football or basketball game. You know who is at every one of them, who is at every practice, every doctors appointment, everything, me. But you think because you pay CS it makes you father of the year. I have so much more I could say but instead I'll just stay quiet.
Sorry I wasn't intending to turn this into a venting session but I had to get it out. I just want to scream at him.