Created a FB account so I could try and find her to let her know. I've got a couple of leads now. At the least have his family. As I am sitting here looking, I'm having the urge to get information out of him. Using the outing as an ultimatum.
I've mentioned before, my WW has always had a crappy memory. I don't know if his would be any better, but I could get number of times/ways/ I love you's. They knew it wasn't going to last past the deployment. I think it would help me hear the other side. Or he could just exaggerate it all. Which I wouldn't know and won't help WW's case.
From what I've gathered, he has done this before. I'd bet he's going to do it again. Maybe the fear of it all crashing down on him would make him stop being a dick.
The only way I am seeing right now to get to his BH is through spamming his FB friends and hoping I get lucky. Why not try and get something useful out of that before I do it?