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 tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 3:06 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

Do you sometimes wonder how much more you can really take????

I'm at a breaking point at the moment I think...

In the grand scheme to an outsider I'm sure it doesn't seem like a lot, but damn. Come on can I please get a break, and some good news for a change?

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:11 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

I completely understand, honey. Sending you strength and positive mojo for a well-earned break.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 3:22 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

Prayers for peace coming your way

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 6:03 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

((tushnurse))

sometimes a slow steady stream of negative just wears you out. Even if it doesn't look big to the outside it feels huge to you and that's what matters. hang in there. We're here for venting if you need to!

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:26 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

(((tush)))

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 tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 6:31 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

thanks you all are awesome.

I think I am going to go home and just pull the covers over my head this afternoon. Maybe tomorrow will shed a different light on my world.

Yes sometimes it's the constant steady stream of minor things that gets to us, but here of late it's a constant stream of bigger issues, and a lack of warmth, and sunshine.

Gonna double up on my Vitamin D, sleep for 10 hours, and hope that changes my life....The sucky part is it's all out of my control. I'm a fixer, and if I can't fix it, it makes me crazy.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 7:11 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

Right there with you tushnurse. Just treading water right now and I took a huge gulp today. It could be worse. I just keep saying that to myself. It could be worse.

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 7:24 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

I have been on here many times when i have felt like the world is crashing in. You are not alone.

Hang in there.

Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 8:33 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

Keep swimming...keep swimming.

Get some rest. I'm usually at my very worst when I'm overtired.

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 11:41 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014

(((Tush)))

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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