As I was laying in bed last night, I thought OH s**t....my sister had tested positive for hepatitis weeks before her death. I talked to her 2 days before she passed and she had told me that she had to have another test done to make sure that wasn't a false positive. Obviously that test never happened.
I looked through her autopsy report this morning, there is nothing about hepatitis in it. Regardless, I am going to be tested. I don't know how long the affair was and I dont know how long my sister has had this (if she did).
I am sick to my stomach. How is this fair? I have been praying, that's all I can do. I have 3 kids and a niece to care for.
Question, I don't know if anyone is familiar with the military but WH got out of the Marine Corps last year and they did a full check up, would they have tested for hepatitis? I can't ask him, I dont even want to look at him.
D-Day~2-10-08 *Even though I "knew" before then...
~~~He can't stop cheating, and I can't stop loving him~~~
~You ruined me~
~How do I start a new life when all I've ever known is you in
When are you going to stop the insanity?
I have no idea it that is tested for in the military as a routine thing....I would suspect they do, but not sure. Afterall they know soldiers tend to be very sexually active, and they want them physically healthy, hepatitis, is silent until it's causing real harm.
I agree, you need to stop the insanity. You are right you need to care for your kids, and your niece, it's time to put you as number one.
Am I understanding that your WH had an affair with your sister... and you found out after she passed away?
Take care of yourself.
BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo
I guess it doesnt matter if he was tested throughout the military or not, since I will be tested. But thought it might bring me some peace of mind. Tushnurse, I am absolutely not going to have sex with him. I dont care if he gets tested or not, I am not touching him.
Neveragain2013, Unfortunately I can not stop this insanity, because it has already been done. I am trying ny best to live through the aftermath.
Thank you for your replies
I would be worried as well. Get tested asap.
Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson
Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.
Good for you being proactive and getting checked ASAP.
Are you in the same house as your WH? It seems like you have the kiddos, is he lurking around the house too?
If so, can you get him to move out. You need some space away from your destroyer. Kick his sorry ass out!
Keep your wits about you my dear Cryinginside. Your are making progress, once you see a lawyer you will be able to make plans with some good info.
Stay strong. (((((Cryingsinside)))))
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