How long before WH finds out I filed? How does he find out? Can I fill out whatever paperwork I need to and have her wait to actually file?
I know I wouldn't want him to find out before Friday and if possible I wouldn't mind if he didn't find out for two weeks. I live in IL if that matters.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.