This Topic is Archived
StillLivin (original poster member #40229) posted at 10:50 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
and I don't care!!!!!! Woohooo. Is this what indifference feels like?
Put it in a bottle and take 3X a day with meals!
Love it.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 11:01 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
I'll have some of what you're drinking please.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 11:06 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Isn't it a grand feeling? XPOS contacts me regularly, I ignore regularly until I feel like responding on my terms, and none of it affects me in any way. It is truly Nirvana! Enjoy!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 11:09 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Pass it around, please!
Awesome for you StillLivin!!!
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 2:30 AM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
I'm awaiting the indifference ... still pisses me off ... no affection is left, now he just makes me wanna 
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 2:45 AM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
Sometimes I wish the Gnat would try to Hoover me just so I could be smug when I ignore him. He never does though. I guess I should be happy about that.
Good for your girl. Give him those crickets!
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:46 AM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
Right after Dr Jekyll comes Mr Hyde - buckle up, grab some popcorn and watch a movie whilst he puts on his little show.
these days I don't care which face I get. I ignore them both.
Absolutely no response from you - give him those skinny little crickets.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 8:08 AM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
Indifference is a gift. The lifting of a great weight.
StillLivin (original poster member #40229) posted at 3:32 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
Gemini71 & dmari, come to my place and we can toast with some good wine!
Phoenix1, It sure is a great feeling. I just pray it lasts. But I am just too damn busy to give him the energy it would take to be either sad, mad, or anything else.
BAB61, You will get there! Promise!
SBB, Like I said above, I'm just too busy with life and improving myself. Let him throw whatever BS he wants. Not my problem anymore, and I'm smarter than him, nah nah nah neh naaaaahhhhhh! 
Brandon808, Amen!
Newlysingle, Sweetie, you have no idea what a gift it is that he is such a coward he won't even face you. Maybe, just maybe, he actually feels a little teensy tiny wee bit'o'shame. Gnat is a coward amongst cowards. It is a blessing that he isn't bothering you YET. Even the most cowardly realize and start hoovering. By the time that happens, you will be healed. You are beautiful, smart, kind, and just amazing. Don't YOU forget that. Be smug in the fact that he wouldn't DARE piss you off! Wish mine had been that timid, but he needed a few verbal knock down drag out fights, then a tussle with the attorney, and then he had a plague of cricket/locusts swarming. They are all just screw ups!
(((Hugs))) to all the brave soldiers that fought the infidelity wars and persevered!!!!!
[This message edited by StillLivin at 9:33 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)]
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
This Topic is Archived
