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He is texting, calling, hoovering today

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StillLivin posted 2/25/2014 16:50 PM

and I don't care!!!!!! Woohooo. Is this what indifference feels like?
Put it in a bottle and take 3X a day with meals!
Love it.

Gemini71 posted 2/25/2014 17:01 PM

I'll have some of what you're drinking please.

Phoenix1 posted 2/25/2014 17:06 PM

Isn't it a grand feeling? XPOS contacts me regularly, I ignore regularly until I feel like responding on my terms, and none of it affects me in any way. It is truly Nirvana! Enjoy!

dmari posted 2/25/2014 17:09 PM

Pass it around, please!

Awesome for you StillLivin!!!

BAB61 posted 2/25/2014 20:30 PM

I'm awaiting the indifference ... still pisses me off ... no affection is left, now he just makes me wanna

newlysingle posted 2/25/2014 20:45 PM

Sometimes I wish the Gnat would try to Hoover me just so I could be smug when I ignore him. He never does though. I guess I should be happy about that.

Good for your girl. Give him those crickets!

SBB posted 2/25/2014 22:46 PM

Right after Dr Jekyll comes Mr Hyde - buckle up, grab some popcorn and watch a movie whilst he puts on his little show.

these days I don't care which face I get. I ignore them both.

Absolutely no response from you - give him those skinny little crickets.

Brandon808 posted 2/26/2014 02:08 AM

Indifference is a gift. The lifting of a great weight.

StillLivin posted 2/26/2014 09:32 AM

Gemini71 & dmari, come to my place and we can toast with some good wine!
Phoenix1, It sure is a great feeling. I just pray it lasts. But I am just too damn busy to give him the energy it would take to be either sad, mad, or anything else.
BAB61, You will get there! Promise!
SBB, Like I said above, I'm just too busy with life and improving myself. Let him throw whatever BS he wants. Not my problem anymore, and I'm smarter than him, nah nah nah neh naaaaahhhhhh!
Brandon808, Amen!
Newlysingle, Sweetie, you have no idea what a gift it is that he is such a coward he won't even face you. Maybe, just maybe, he actually feels a little teensy tiny wee bit'o'shame. Gnat is a coward amongst cowards. It is a blessing that he isn't bothering you YET. Even the most cowardly realize and start hoovering. By the time that happens, you will be healed. You are beautiful, smart, kind, and just amazing. Don't YOU forget that. Be smug in the fact that he wouldn't DARE piss you off! Wish mine had been that timid, but he needed a few verbal knock down drag out fights, then a tussle with the attorney, and then he had a plague of cricket/locusts swarming. They are all just screw ups!
(((Hugs))) to all the brave soldiers that fought the infidelity wars and persevered!!!!!

[This message edited by StillLivin at 9:33 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)]

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