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User Topic: Xmil is Xpos
♀ 38928
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Cool  Posted: 5:13 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I have found out through oldest DD (who is very close to XMIL and talks with her regularly) that XMIL is absolutely FURIOUS with XPOS for what he has done to the family. He needs a place to live and she won't let him move in with her, and she is just nasty and hostile to him at every turn, even though he is the one taking care of her with her health issues (she's almost 90). When DD went to visit XMIL a few weeks ago, XMIL told DD to tell me that she still loves me, still considers me family, and offered to help in any way I needed. I don't need her assistance, but hearing that from this nasty old woman at the expense of her own son did make me smile (she really is a bitter, nasty old person). She has even cut XPOS out of her Will and left everything to the grandkids. So if XPOS thinks he will be getting a financial windfall on her passing (and I truly believe he thinks that since he is her only child), he is going to be in for a nasty surprise! I've never been close to the old biddy, so for her to reach out to me through DD speaks volumes about how she feels toward XPOS!

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

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Posts: 5085 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
♀ 40306
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My MIL is furious with WH as well. And so, so sad about the choices he's making. I really feel for her.

Makes you feel a little less crazy, doesn't it?

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5601 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 42510
Member # 42510
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad that has happened for you. Enjoy it! I've followed the advice on here and other sources and haven't reached out to the Xin-laws. In return, there are crickets from them as well. I don't know what to say when people ask me what STBXWH's family is saying, and then they seem shocked that they haven't reached out. X Aunt B reached out to me, but we're buddies so that isn't surprising.

"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
♀ 42581
Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, February 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's always nice when the ILs see through their own kids' shit.

DD-March 2010

Posts: 5434 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
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