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renee21 posted 2/25/2014 23:11 PM

Been a long time since I posted. We've been separated for 4 months, but this limbo hell has dragged on for about 8. He met a whore at the youth football organization that we run. I saw it from a mile away. Long story short, he took the bait and has ripped our lives apart. I finally got confirmation of things I needed to make me put my bitch boots on and file. I found out that he's been living there and lying to me, our kids, his own family. And to top it off the whore came back out to our organization so her kids could play ball there again this season. My 16 year old and 9 year old know who she is and that dad didn't have the decency to keep her away. Payback .is a bitch though, she was stupid enough to post Facebook pictures of the two of them and our board members got ahold of them, so not only are they going to tell her to leave, they are going to tell him to follow his whore out too. I am so relieved, its like a ton of bricks has been lifted off of me. The two idiots have to leave and me and my kids get to stay and be in peace. I haven't even cried since I found out, I now know about that point of being done. I can't get to the attorney fast enough.

dmari posted 2/26/2014 01:01 AM

Payback .is a bitch though, she was stupid enough to post Facebook pictures of the two of them and our board members got ahold of them, so not only are they going to tell her to leave, they are going to tell him to follow his whore out too.
I think it is wonderful that they are going to ask both of them to leave! The kids and you will feel safe and I can't stress the importance of having that feeling!

Good luck with the attorney!

stronger08 posted 2/26/2014 01:54 AM

Good for you. Its a great feeling when you finally get to the point of no return with a WS. I remember signing the final agreement and petition for D. I went into my attorneys office nervous as hell for some reason. But when I left I just sat in my car, took a very deep breath and felt the weight of the world just disappear from my shoulders. By the time the official documents came back signed by a judge many months later it was very anticlimactic for me. I thought I would have jumped for joy, but by that time I was like "Good I'm D" Like I was getting a tax return or something, very routine and business like. My real relief came with signing the final petition. I wish you peace and healing my friend.

nowiknow23 posted 2/26/2014 08:42 AM

Good to see you, renee. It's amazing when that switch flips, isn't it? All doubt is removed and the path becomes clear.

sparkysable posted 2/26/2014 08:45 AM

I think it's great that people are so supportive of you! I wish more people were like that. My experience has been that most people stuck their heads in the sand saying they "didn't want to get in the middle" or "didn't want to have to choose sides".

RealityStinks posted 2/26/2014 08:46 AM

@ renee21 -
I'm glad you've come to a decision you're "good" with. And, I am so happy that your WH and his ho are being asked to leave. That just adds to what little "faith in humanity" I have left! STBX and her limp dick serve on the a board for a children's organization. I would LOVE IT if they were told to hit the road.

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