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User Topic: another sobriety post
Kelany
♀ 34755
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

30 days today for me.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful, samantha!


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane


Posts: 39870 | Registered: Aug 2011
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTG Samantha


Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
Kodi
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Member # 16237
Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 1414 | Registered: Sep 2007
pmal64
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Member # 13551
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congratulations! way to go!


.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-50
fWH -54

Posts: 586 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
HFSSC
♀ 33338
Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

30 days and three thousand nights.

(((Samantha)))

Keep it up!


Me, 50. (How did THAT happen??)
Him, 42 (JMSSC)
married 20 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3881 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!

Posts: 49482 | Registered: Mar 2011
looking forward
♀ 25238
Member # 25238
Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!
It's worth it!


~ lf


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow. Together more than 49 years.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 3197 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoo!!

Congrats!!!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34


Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
SoVerySadNow
♀ 36711
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats!!!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go Girl!!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 12778 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Kelany
♀ 34755
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. I'd only been drinking since dday#2 (not an excuse, it was a choice) and I'd progressively spiraled out of control and was binging. Waking up in a hospital with no memory and over .300 bac? Yeah, that was bottom.

I'm much happier, I'm thinking clearer, I'm not puking all the time, and I feel better.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good job!


“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 54907 | Registered: Sep 2007
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, February 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great! I wish you continued success.

My WH stopped drinking on Dday 3+ years ago.


ME: 55 BS
HIM: 63 WH
Married: 30 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 6 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2415 | Registered: Nov 2011
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