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 Kelany (original poster member #34755) posted at 2:09 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

30 days today for me.

BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:11 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

That's wonderful, samantha!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:04 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

WTG Samantha

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 3:31 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

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pmal64 ( member #13551) posted at 3:47 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

congratulations! way to go!

.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-55
WH -60
"when they show you who they are, believe them"

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 7:07 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

30 days and three thousand nights.

(((Samantha)))

Keep it up!

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:15 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Congrats!!!!

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looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 7:20 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Congratulations!

It's worth it!

~ lf

Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 7:49 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Woo Hoo!!

Congrats!!!

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 9:42 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

congrats!!!

Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 11:31 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

You go Girl!!!!

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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 Kelany (original poster member #34755) posted at 12:11 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Thanks guys. I'd only been drinking since dday#2 (not an excuse, it was a choice) and I'd progressively spiraled out of control and was binging. Waking up in a hospital with no memory and over .300 bac? Yeah, that was bottom.

I'm much happier, I'm thinking clearer, I'm not puking all the time, and I feel better.

BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:31 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Good job!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 12:43 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

That's great! I wish you continued success.

My WH stopped drinking on Dday 3+ years ago.

ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

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