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thebighurt posted 2/26/2014 18:29 PM

I was just told that I look "great" lately. "You look really well, too. Do you feel really well, too?"

Yes, I do!! I feel REALLY GREAT!! Maybe it has to do with the walking and eating better as I said in NIK's thread, or maybe it's just that I'm soooo happy! I'm very lucky to be in a place where I can be. Great opportunities and loving people surround me. I plan to take those opportunities while I can, because it could come to an end.

Happy is a great place to be!!

MovingUpward posted 2/26/2014 18:35 PM

I've got that stupid song in my head now but I'll spare everyone.

thebighurt posted 2/26/2014 18:49 PM

Ok, Moo, I feel really dumb. I have no idea what song you mean. Maybe about 2 am it will come to me........

MovingUpward posted 2/26/2014 18:50 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6Sxv-sUYtM

Happy by Pharrell Williams

thebighurt posted 2/26/2014 19:19 PM

OOOOooooohhhh! Thanks, Moo - that's about it!

Harriet posted 2/26/2014 20:28 PM

Which, by the way, MOO, isn't nearly a trigger for me like it used to be! TYVM!

sparkysable posted 2/27/2014 10:08 AM

Good for you! You are finally living the life you deserve to live. You suffered under that piece of shit and his abusive ways for years, it's about time that you get to do things that make YOU happy, instead of tip-toeing around him and his moods, trying to make HIM happy.

thebighurt posted 2/27/2014 18:09 PM

Thank you, SS. My IC finally got through to me in the last year. I finally realize how much of me was lost in that M. I'm beginning to find her again. She's someone who is honest, kind, considerate, loving, caring, a good friend, and......... now......... Happy!