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 Chrysalis123 (original poster member #27148) posted at 5:07 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

DD16 is interviewing for a prestigious scholarship tomorrow. Thousands apply and she is one of several hundred finalists from 4 states. Many students will be selected.

If chosen, this scholarship will allow her to attend 4 years of college at any US college for very little money.

I took her shopping last weekend for business attire.

She looks smashing in her adult clothes.

I am a nervous wreck, which she doesn't know about. I think she doesn't fully comprehend the significance of this.

Regardless of what happens in my mind she has already shown she has won as she made it this far. Yeah for her!

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 11:33 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)]

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:16 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Scholarship mojo on its way!!!! She already is a winner, she has you for her mama!

Hugs,

K

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 5:30 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Mojo, mojo, mojo, mojo mojo mojomojomojomojomojomojo!!

Best of luck to your DD!

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 5:35 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Wow! That's exciting! Sending her whatever mojo I have (and calming deep breaths for you, mom! )

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 8:15 AM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

How wonderful! Sending much mojo!

In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:11 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Sending lots of mojo!!!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:03 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Sending mojo

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:41 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

MOJO!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 2:51 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Wow, that's fantastic!

Everything and anything headed her way!

You outta be proud, mama.

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 2:56 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Best wishes for success for your DD. Of course she doesn't realize the significance of this, she's 16. She won't understand it until her DD is applying for it. This is a fantastic opportunity for her and I hope he is able to nail it. 4 yrs of the college of your choice is a great accomplishment.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 3:07 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

I wish her luck! And even if she doesn't get it, the experience of this interview is priceless!

Fingers crossed!

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:33 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Sending mojo.

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 Chrysalis123 (original poster member #27148) posted at 5:39 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Thank you so much. She is interviewing right now!! Fingers crossed.

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 5:43 PM on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

Mojo, and Major Mojo heading your way!!!

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 12:10 AM on Friday, February 28th, 2014

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH MOJO going out to you and your daughter.

As the parent of a college student I KNOW just how important this is.

The great news is that if she is a finalist for such a prestigious scholarship she's bound to get others as well.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 1:04 AM on Friday, February 28th, 2014

I hope it went well! What an honor to be interviewed even!

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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 Chrysalis123 (original poster member #27148) posted at 12:38 PM on Friday, February 28th, 2014

She said as she walked into the interview her hands were shaking she was so nervous. After the intros, they asked a funny question about something that she wrote in one of her 5 required essays, and she said that made her smile and relax.

She felt it went well, and none of the questions were difficult for her to answer, and she will know in a few weeks if she will be selected for the scholarship. I am so proud of her!!

Thank you for all the great mojo.

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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