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User Topic: finally, my NB ring
inconnu
♀ 24518
Member # 24518
Happy  Posted: 8:20 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

5 years ago, around my birthday, I started thinking in terms of a 5 year plan. I was still married, but in what deep down I knew was false R (but wasn't ready to admit that yet). I also knew that regardless of whether my marriage survived or not, my life was going to drastically change over the next 5 years.

And well, I was right.

So now I've got this big milestone birthday next month. Things haven't happened exactly how I thought that would. Somehow though, I've still managed to check off most everything in the plan.

And I am embracing this birthday, celebrating not only my surviving the past 5 years, but also the new beginning I've built for myself. Instead of a freakin' midlife crisis, I'm having a midlife adventure. Life is good.

Here's my birthday present to myself...

[This message edited by inconnu at 8:21 PM, February 27th (Thursday)]


When a man gives his opinion, he's a man. When a woman gives her opinion, she's a bitch. - Bette Davis

Posts: 12952 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
Darkness Falls
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful! Aquamarine?


WS, 5-month EA/PA '09-'10

Divorced from (2010) and remarried to (2014) XBH

1-year-old daughter and another baby girl on the way


Posts: 4120 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Central Florida
better4me
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE it!!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:54
Divorced

Posts: 4066 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
thebighurt
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Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful!! Love, love this!! Congrats on all you have accomplished. Early Happy Birthday, too!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 3713 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
inconnu
♀ 24518
Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, aquamarine. My birthday's towards the end of March, making me an Aries.


When a man gives his opinion, he's a man. When a woman gives her opinion, she's a bitch. - Bette Davis

Posts: 12952 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
workindad
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great idea, congratulations to you!

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh, nice! Congratulations.

Cars, rings, guitars, we rock NBs around here.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 20488 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
inconnu
♀ 24518
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

we rock NBs around here.

that we do.


When a man gives his opinion, he's a man. When a woman gives her opinion, she's a bitch. - Bette Davis

Posts: 12952 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just beautiful, inconnu!


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane


Posts: 40111 | Registered: Aug 2011
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lovely!!!!


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 4461 | Registered: Jan 2010
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!!

For what would have been my Silver Anniversary, I bought myself a very nice stainless steel mandolin (kitchen slicer)! I am so proud of it and every time I use it I think "I made it! I really made it!"

I hope you enjoy your NB ring as much as I enjoy my NB mandolin


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful! What a wonderful acknowledgement of your brave journey. Happy NB


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely gorgeous and amazing inconnu!


Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 5277 | Registered: Mar 2011
really trying
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

very pretty inconnu


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10419 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 781 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, February 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lovely! Aquamarines are my favorite. You've got great taste


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 9591 | Registered: Apr 2008
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful!


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1034 | Registered: Dec 2008
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is beautiful!


me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced


Posts: 4738 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice!

Looks great on your hand...you could be a hand model.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34


Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's beautiful!!!


Me - BW
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.


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