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movingbackwards posted 2/28/2014 12:55 PM

Packed up all my stuff last night to leave today. WH is out of town, so he'll find out when he returns next week. I was on the fence about this for a long time, but many recent lies and more TT has given me some peace that is the right thing to do. I can't stay in that toxic environment, and I can't help someone who won't help himself.

Pass posted 2/28/2014 12:58 PM

You're doing the right thing, friend. You are strong and fierce!

Nature_Girl posted 2/28/2014 13:21 PM

(((HUGS)))

You're not moving backwards anymore. You were swirling in an eddy, but now you're moving forward. We're here with you.

nowiknow23 posted 2/28/2014 13:27 PM

When you're done, you know it. Sending you strength, honey. ((((mb))))

StillLivin posted 2/28/2014 14:03 PM

(((movingbackwards)))

movingbackwards posted 2/28/2014 16:33 PM

Thanks everyone. It is much easier this time since I got the push I needed. Last time I left, I was questioning it the whole time and that made me give in and talk to him and come back. I do know now that I'm on the right path. It totally sucks, but it's the least shitty of all my options.

Pass posted 2/28/2014 16:58 PM

It totally sucks, but it's the least shitty of all my options.

And that's how you know it's the right one. I'm sorry that all you have are shitty options at this point. Eventually, the least shitty will show itself to also be the best.

Starzjourney posted 2/28/2014 17:25 PM

{{{Moving}}}---FORWARD

Tripletrouble posted 2/28/2014 19:06 PM

Sending you strength and hugs. There is so much peace to be had from finding your way forward, even when it sucks.

Virginiagirl posted 2/28/2014 22:07 PM

There is something to be said for the clarity that comes when you gave them a second chance, and they can't come through. It still sucks but it will be easier for you to move forward now without the wondering, worrying about what ifs.

You're not moving backwards anymore. You were swirling in an eddy, but now you're moving forward.

^^couldn't have said it better! now you have a direction

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