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sparkle09 posted 2/28/2014 14:39 PM
I went home for lunch today and WH was on his phone, his work computer was open so I decided to go through his emails. For some weird reason old emails that were not there before popped up. I am talking ab 2007. I found an email between him and affair partner,
AP- Pretty please suga with whipped cream and a cherry on top.
WH- I don't like cherries 
From what I knew the sexual innuendos didn't start until 2011 when the PA started. Uhmm is this email not totally sexually charges? WH says I'm overreacting and nothing happened until 2011. I am livid beyond livid he is acting like its no big deal!
I told him to leave...pack it all up and go. I have been in limbo but I feel like this is going to send me over the edge to D.
[This message edited by sparkle09 at 3:17 PM, February 28th (Friday)]
deena04 posted 2/28/2014 15:09 PM
Trust your gut! Sexual comments like that starting then coupled with his reaction could speak volumes. Not saying for sure, but investigate and listen to yourself...sorry this crap sucks!
RipsInMyChest posted 2/28/2014 15:45 PM
Why does he still have these old emails? It is NOT acceptable to keep them!
So sorry you are going thru this. There is definitely sexual innuendo in the "cherry" talk.....
RidingHealingRd posted 2/28/2014 16:02 PM
Email from 2007 ~ a bit too "friendly"
2011 when the PA started~ doubtful given the 2007 email.
4+ years until that "friendship" turned PA? I do not believe for one minute that your WH has been truthful.
Why does he have that email?
[This message edited by RidingHealingRd at 4:03 PM, February 28th (Friday)]
sparkle09 posted 2/28/2014 16:24 PM
Exactly! Its disgusting to think when we were engaged to be married this was going on.
karmahappens posted 2/28/2014 17:33 PM
I posted in your punishing ws thread that your husband appeared to be still foggy and not ready to r.
Again, I believe you should implement the 180. I fear there is more you have not uncovered.
painfulpast posted 2/28/2014 17:38 PM
So you've decided to separate? I'm sorry.
(((((hugs)))))
sparkle09 posted 2/28/2014 18:42 PM
Don't know how I missed this but 2 people were copied on email. He said she was asking for a favor saying that and he was being sarcastic with his reply. Also said he would take a lie detector test to "prove" it didn't start until 2011.
[This message edited by sparkle09 at 6:45 PM, February 28th (Friday)]