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devotedfool68 (original poster member #38047) posted at 9:47 PM on Friday, February 28th, 2014
So it has been over 20 months since my wife had sex with another man and there is not a day that goes by that my mind doesn't SCREAM
"HOW COULD YOU!!" 
end rant
BH 47
WW 39 (Lost94)
DS 17
DS 16
many DDays, primary 7/4/2012 and 8/10/2012
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 9:56 PM on Friday, February 28th, 2014
"HOW COULD YOU!!"
3+ Years since Dday and, although I do not think this ^^^ every single day, it certainly flows through my brain now and then. 
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 10:37 PM on Friday, February 28th, 2014
You know... At 4 years out, i rarely thought about it... It sucks that we were past it... And had made it to the other side... And then he started up again. It's for that reason, I don't think i will ever trust him again... Not fully.
Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"
LivinginLimbo ( member #35004) posted at 5:38 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
25 months here. I also add a ton of expletives to my mind rant.
BS - 65
WH - 63
Married 37 years
D-Day 2/12/12
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.
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