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Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 3:28 AM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
I already hold an Advanced Open Water SCUBA certification. Got it before marriage. XPOS was not into any water activities so that meant my personal goal of getting my Divemaster certification was put on the back burner. Always resented that. But that is gonna change as I have made the decision to aggressively pursue that goal! DD17 and I are leaving for the Turks and Caicos Islands next week for my "post divorce independence celebration" and I have been working with a dive shop there to jam in as many certifications toward my Divemaster as I can while there. I have gone from lounging on the beach and watching the world go by to round the clock dive action. And I am totally PSYCHED about it!! One of my personal goals is back in sight again now that ex-anchor has been cut loose! Whoop!!! Excited doesn't begin to describe me 
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fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
PhoenixRising88 ( member #35214) posted at 4:15 AM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
you GOOOOO GIRL!!!! Proud of ya!!!
Me: BS(45)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(52). D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/13. Divorced 1/10/14.
New chapter of my life- married 11/13/15 to the man I'd thought I would never find.
Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 4:22 AM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Turks and Caicos are so beautiful; some of my best diving ever. Enjoy and GOOOOO GIRRRLLLL!
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:25 AM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Enjoy!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 6:46 AM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Fantastic!
Enjoy your independence holiday.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
mixedemotions ( member #35810) posted at 6:26 AM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014
Amazing! Way to go for YOUR bliss! Emphasis on your, you independent woman you! 
Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie
GotPlayed ( member #41294) posted at 6:49 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Congratulations!!!"Post divorce independence celebration"?
They have those???
Totally doing that! Great idea!
There will probably be *some* cash distributed after stuff is sold. And I worked so hard I'm tapped on vacation days!
Vacation for one, coming up!
Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome
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