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User Topic: New goal set...
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I already hold an Advanced Open Water SCUBA certification. Got it before marriage. XPOS was not into any water activities so that meant my personal goal of getting my Divemaster certification was put on the back burner. Always resented that. But that is gonna change as I have made the decision to aggressively pursue that goal! DD17 and I are leaving for the Turks and Caicos Islands next week for my "post divorce independence celebration" and I have been working with a dive shop there to jam in as many certifications toward my Divemaster as I can while there. I have gone from lounging on the beach and watching the world go by to round the clock dive action. And I am totally PSYCHED about it!! One of my personal goals is back in sight again now that ex-anchor has been cut loose! Whoop!!! Excited doesn't begin to describe me

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 9:29 PM, February 28th (Friday)]

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet

Posts: 1419 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
♀ 35214
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you GOOOOO GIRL!!!! Proud of ya!!!

Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.

Posts: 436 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
♀ 30742
Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Turks and Caicos are so beautiful; some of my best diving ever. Enjoy and GOOOOO GIRRRLLLL!

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1281 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Game On!
♀ 33226
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, February 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 29111 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 38865
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Default  Posted: 12:46 AM, March 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Enjoy your independence holiday.

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
♀ 35810
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Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amazing! Way to go for YOUR bliss! Emphasis on your, you independent woman you!

Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 386 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
♂ 41294
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Default  Posted: 12:49 AM, March 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!"Post divorce independence celebration"?

They have those???

Totally doing that! Great idea!

There will probably be *some* cash distributed after stuff is sold. And I worked so hard I'm tapped on vacation days!

Vacation for one, coming up!

Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
Divorcing. If we can ever get a final conference.

Posts: 879 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
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