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Topic: Dear Jackass, (just a vent)

tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698

Posted: 9:30 PM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014

When I write you about a pick up time on Monday several days in advance, you are supposed to respond as to whether or not that time works for you. Instead, I'm forced to write you again the night before the pick up since you're either being forgetful or passive-aggressive.

I had to get that out there so it doesn't go in the email. I was feeling like writing him something completely bitchy, but I will continue to refrain from feeding the beast.

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3685 | Registered: Oct 2011

nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306

Posted: 9:40 PM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014

Yep. High road,baby. Stay on it.

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013

StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229

Posted: 10:42 PM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014

Maybe you can set a timeframe instead of asking him.
Not sure of the specifics of your situation but maybe something like this.

DD can be picked up anytime between 3:30 - 4:00 p.m on Friday. After that I will be leaving for another engagement.

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2628 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ

Runningaway
♀ 30707
Member # 30707

Posted: 11:45 PM, March 2nd (Sunday), 2014

(((tryingagain74)))
What a jackass. I had similar issues briefly in the very beginning of my separation.
He would not respond to emails, he refused to email me or acknowledge any emails I sent him.
I asked him not to use bbm and if he would instead agree to text, he refused. I would text him, he would bbm me back. So very frustrating.

I don't remember exactly how I kept it together but not fighting about it or letting him know how much it bothered me was definitely key in my success. Eventually he found something else to be upset at/about and started being reasonable with me.

What doesn't kill us makes us smaller. - Mario

Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Canada

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