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 notmeanymore (original poster member #9772) posted at 5:15 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

For my 20 year old companion and was I tell people 'the most successful relationship I've ever had with a male'.

It's breaking my heart. I just lost his sister last week.

I've lost my crazy cat lady status in less than 2 weeks.

I know it's time but it still sucks.

"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 5:17 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

((notme))

I'm so sorry for the loss of both. It's horrible.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 5:18 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Yes it does.

I'm so sorry for you, but you and your baby know it's time.

Just be there for him/her. Let your face be the last they look at before they cross the Bridge.

{{{hugs}}}

k9

BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:21 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

(((not)))

I'm so sorry.

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 5:22 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

(((notmeanymore)))

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 5:43 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

(((notmeanymore)))

I had to do the same thing recently with my 14 year old diabetic kitteh. I'm still thinking about her every single day. It helps knowing she is released from her illness and health concerns. My thoughts are with you.

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 5:51 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

20 years! That's a long time for a dog.

What kind of dog is it? So sorry.

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 5:59 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

So sorry, what a wonderful long life you gave them. I hope you find peace soon.



i edit frequently because i have to

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:12 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

I lost my cat of 14 years due to cancer last summer. It does hurt, and I'm so sorry.

(((notmeanymore)))

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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 notmeanymore (original poster member #9772) posted at 6:58 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Spike was a cat.

He went downhill very quickly from this morning. I actually bumped up the appointment time and then just drove over with him even though it was an hour early. I figured a hysterical woman with a dying cat might get me in sooner. It did. He was completely unresponsive and I just didn't want to drag it out.

I'm glad I was with him. I found his sister dead and I felt badly that I had not been with her when she passed.

The only reason I was home to witness his decline is because of transmission troubles. While having your car break down sucks, I feel lucky I was given those extra couple hours with him before he got really sick

They both were ridiculously spoiled and loved, in that aspect I have no regrets.

"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 7:13 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

(((notmeanymore)))

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Elecin ( member #16484) posted at 7:27 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

I'm so sorry about your loss.

I know how you feel!

I still get sad when I think of my pets passing and it's been a few years.

Omissions are Betrayals

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:07 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I had my fur baby for 11 years when he passed unexpectedly... I cried like a baby all day.

I still miss him... He was almost like a dog (even tho he was a cat)

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 8:15 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

So sorry for you loss

Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 8:16 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

(((Notme)))

As hard as this is, you're giving him the greatest gift of leaving this world with dignity and love. I'm so sorry that you're faced with this difficult decision.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 2:33 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)]

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:29 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

((HUGS)) I'm so sorry.

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:45 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

So sorry to hear this. I had two Siamese who lived very long lives and went over the bridge within a few weeks of each other.

We had a lovely lady vet come to the house, we all had a shot of whiskey and let them go.

It was a very special moment. (((NMA)))

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:03 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

((((not me)))))

That is so painful for you. You know he just couldn't stand to be without his sister.

That is remarkably old for a kitty, you can be proud that you provided a great home for them.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 7:29 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

((((((notme)))))))

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lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 8:03 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

Awwwwwww, I'm so sorry, notme. You will receive a PM.

My daughter has a brother-and-sister pair of Bengal tabbies. I so fear this will happen with them soon as they are getting up there in Bengal age.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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