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Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 4:06 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Today would have been his mother's 59th birthday. We lost her almost 5 years ago to a very aggressive form of cancer.
Our DD's middle name is her name, and it's a wonderful little reminder that she is always with us.
Still, days like today we ache at the loss more than usual.
Please keep Crazz in your thoughts tonight. I hope that as he closes his eyes he can remember her hugs and her laughter and get to "spend" a moment with her.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 4:25 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Prayers sent. Peace to you and yours tonight.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 5:08 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
I don't pray, but I'm sending hugs and positive thoughts your way.
((( Crazz and family )))
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 5:14 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
(((Crazz and family)))
We lost FIL almost nine years ago, now. Today, we were talking about some business stuff and we both burst into tears. 
It never leaves you, but the times of intense grief become farther apart.
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 6:55 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
warm thoughts and comfort sent for the whole Razzie family.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 7:30 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Thanks everyone. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 11:28 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:31 AM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
(((Razz family)))
Sending loving thoughts your way.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 1:09 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
She left you so young 
Hugs to the whole family.
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 1:52 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Sending love and comfort to all of you.
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:52 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
(((Crazz and family))))
May good memories of happy times bring peace to you today.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 2:07 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
(((Crazz and family)))
Peaceful thoughts to you.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:09 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
((((Crazz))))
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 2:57 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
(((Crazz)))
Thinking of you today, man. Hang in there.
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 4:06 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Sending my prayers and good thoughts. 
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:45 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
(((Crazz)))
Sending strength and good thoughts.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 5:52 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
(((Crazz and family)))
peace to you both today.
Far too young to lose a mom, I am sorry.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 8:15 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
I will give a thought for CRAZZ as I remember my own Mum who passed away this day, 2003.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:43 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Good Thoughts for the whole Razz family!!!
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 11:41 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Thanks friends. Prayers and good thoughts for your mum too, lynn.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
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