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New Beginnings :
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 sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 12:55 AM on Friday, March 7th, 2014

I'm sick of being stuck here. I decided to light a fire under my own ass. I turned in my notice at work. My little brother is getting married here on May 17th. He once threw a rotisserie chicken at his blushing bride to be so there's no way I'm missing the wedding.

But after that I'm gone. I'm spinning my wheels here and I hate it. I'm taking a leap of faith. The clock started today. It's time.

The condo is probably a bust. So is the job transfer. Screw it. I built a heck of a life here before STBX burned it down. I can do it again. This time with a tan.

[This message edited by sunsetslost at 6:56 PM, March 6th (Thursday)]

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

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traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 1:08 AM on Friday, March 7th, 2014

Wear some shades...Everyone looks cool with sunglasses

Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:09 AM on Friday, March 7th, 2014

You're making it happen, sunsets! Kick some ass and take names while you're at it. Sending you new beginning mojo.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 7:09 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014

Go sunsets!!

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

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Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 3:28 AM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014

Not easy, Sunsets. Tough decisions.

New beginnings have nothing attached.

An obvious statement but one that's easy to forget.

I'm discovering that people who physically move away from where the sh hit the fan do better over time and the slate is cleaner to go on with.

There are condos ever where if you like them and apartments can be okay...lot less to do and some come with pools. Best of luck.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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Leia ( member #42510) posted at 5:36 AM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014

Take the leap, and don't forget the sunscreen! Really, a rotisserie chicken and she's still marrying him? That sounds like one hell of a good story to tell. Best of luck!

"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:35 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Good Luck!

Leap and the net will appear!

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 5:18 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014

Good for you! You are only stuck if you think you are, and now you know you aren't.

Will there be good sunsets where you are heading? Maybe you'll reclaim some!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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 sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 1:12 AM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014

Oh, I think I'll find a few......

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Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

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