"The Will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."
H's at least finally getting a DNA test... 5 years and about $40K wasted "keeping her quiet" to not tell me right away but better than never I guess
hopefully the system will override that he was a fool to sign whatever form she's now trying to use in her support complaint. Answer gets filed next week and hopefully we mediate a private agreement signed off on from there once paternity is officially "cannot be excluded" (I have to so admit I do not want him to be the sperm donor, but whatever - if that's what it takes to get him away from CL whores of the future so be it)
lawyer advised against a NC to "play nice" get support adjusted accordingly as a private agreement so I don't have protection there but so far, she's not returned to our house.
I got him to change his cell phone so she can no longer txt or call.
He's given me access to his work, linkedin, FB emails so hopefully he's not hiding more
we're in MC so glad he came on board with that - signed up for retrouvaille (sp?) starting in May - so also glad he was willing to go to that
other than that = started nutrisystem to not just keep dropping all this weight from depression/so focusing on keeping it balanced = food and exercise wise
have a spa-massage plan for the rest of the year for once a month
so thankfully I jumped on this site and been trying to work through...one day at a time of course, but still - better to be working than wallowing
"The darkest night is dispelled by the humblest of flames."