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Monster62 posted 3/7/2014 07:29 AM

Last night my BW told me I should come on the upcoming family vacation we had planned months ago. I didn't think that was even possible. When I said we should have a conversation about the logistics of it , she mentioned I would stay in a spare room. Hell, I would stay on the roof if it meant I could be there with her and my family!

I am trying not to focus on my hopes and stay focused on her healing. She said this is absolutely what she wants for her.

HUFI-PUFI posted 3/7/2014 08:06 AM

Monster62 - I am trying not to focus on my hopes and stay focused on her healing. She said this is absolutely what she wants for her.

I hope this family vacation is the first of many shared activities that will serve as healing for you and your BW. And while you do need to be realistic about what this really means in terms of R and you need to be "in the moment" with your BW, I still feel that having some faith and hope is important.

Hope you have a happy holiday.

HUFI

If you have lost hope, hold onto faith. When faith deserts you, hold onto sheer stubbornness and pigheadedness - HUFI.

Jovie posted 3/7/2014 10:01 AM

That's fantastic! I hope the time away together gives you a chance to show your remorse and resolve to your family.

CantLoseHope posted 3/7/2014 10:11 AM

Congratulations Monster, that is great news! HAVE FUN!

mrs7 posted 3/9/2014 11:33 AM

Happy for you -

those little slivers of hope are what keeps ya going. Hope you & your family have an awesome time together.

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