I know how you feel. It's been 5 months for me and the only thing that has gotten me through is giving myself permission not to make a decision right now. This may sound strange but I work, have kids, house, dogs and things have to get done so I've become so accustomed to making decisions quickly it was hard to step back.
So now I track my daily feelings (not in depth who has time for that) I just write either a down arrow, an up arrow or just a line straight across on my calendar. This for me means, a good day with H, a bad day with H, or neutral. I then gave myself a date to look at the trend. The first date was at the 3 month mark. On that day I decided I wasn't ready to make a decision yet and extended it another 3 months. When I feel hopeless and lost, I try to remind myself that I don't have to make a decision until such and such date. This helps me take it day by day.
Yes it is still living in limbo but it helps me stay in the moment and not get lost in all of this crap I'm dealing with.