Me: BGF (49)
WBF is an inspector. A vehicle he failed a while ago, came back in today to be reinspected (reinspect is free). By law, they have a certain allowed time to get this repaired, and can't go over a certain amount of mileage. If they do, they need a completely new inspection, and need to pay for it.
He's always told me about how people come in for a reinspect, over the mileage, and they have to make them start over with a new inspection and pay the full amount. If customers get upset, they show them where it states this on their copy.
So today, he has a woman in there with a sob story about how she's racked up $400 in fines for expires plates, and then fails his reinspect because she's over the allowed mileage by 1000 miles. He passes her!!!!
Ummmmmmm, he can lose his inspectors license for this. Not only that, he did some supposed unknown female a HUGE favor. Why???? He can't say this was work. His work was to fail her! Instead he used his power to pass her and help her out.
I should mention I was meeting him for lunch. As I'm getting closer to his work, he's got me on the phone asking EXACTLY where I'm at. When I get there, he's still on the phone with me, standing away from the building. He gets in, and starts telling me about this story. Then points to a car behind us, saying that was her. All the while acting as though he's pissed at having to deal with her.
All this is sending off red flags for me. The only thing that cancels the red flags, is that he didn't have to tell me. Am I missing something, or just hyper paranoid right now???
Help!!!! I feel like my world is nothing but a mess right now, with his shit...and I just want to give up and cry....
[This message edited by TrulySad at 4:28 PM, March 7th (Friday)]
Him: WBF (nogoodap1), cheater and SA
Together for 4 years.
Too many DDs to list, the last one 28 June 2016
Status: He chose his addiction, I chose to break up
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