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gypsybird87 (original poster member #39193) posted at 11:02 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
...Going to the local country bar with a new friend (female) last night, and getting to dance with all the fun, good dancers. This becomes possible when one is no longer married to the grumpy, bad dancer!
It's also nice to reclaim this place and activity, because it was something I loved before I ever met XWH. And this bar in particular, because we went there a few times with OW and her boyfriend at the time. 
I've been there a few times since the D... but I dunno. Something about last night's outing just felt extra good, like a true new beginning for that part of my life.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 3:39 AM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:49 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:02 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
That's great, gypsy! 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 10:08 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 10:26 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Love this post - I love to dance to two step and nothing is worse than dancing with a bad dancer, especially if they're grumpy! 
So happy for you!
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
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