...Going to the local country bar with a new friend (female) last night, and getting to dance with all the fun, good dancers. This becomes possible when one is no longer married to the grumpy, bad dancer!
It's also nice to reclaim this place and activity, because it was something I loved before I ever met XWH. And this bar in particular, because we went there a few times with OW and her boyfriend at the time. 
I've been there a few times since the D... but I dunno. Something about last night's outing just felt extra good, like a true new beginning for that part of my life.
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
