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Topic: Prayers
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WhatsRight
♀ 35417
Member # 35417 |  Posted: 7:50 AM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 |     |
Child is going into rehab.
Husband wants to give up on family - his words.
Elderly parent going downhill fast.
Trying not to lose my mind.
Just asking for prayers and/or good thoughts.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Posts: 4571 | Registered: Apr 2012 |
SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024 | | Posted: 8:08 AM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
((((WhatsRight)))) I am so sorry. That is a very full plate and seems you are the one who is always carrying it and trying to balance it.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Posts: 13317 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA |
refuz2bavictim
♀ 27176
Member # 27176 | | Posted: 8:11 AM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
((WhatsRight))
I am sending you prayers for strength, peace and comfort.
oops I accidentally erased my old signature and I'm sorry for all of my edits, it seems I need glasses.
Posts: 2411 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
scarednbroken
♀ 41961
Member # 41961 | | Posted: 10:32 AM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
(((What'sright)))
BS: Me 47 WH: 54 Kids: 17, 19, 21, 32 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for
Posts: 423 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Midwest |
blakesteele
♂ 38044
Member # 38044 | | Posted: 10:36 AM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
(((Whatsright)))))
Specific prayer for you. And one for your family .
God be with us all.
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
Posts: 5809 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 12:31 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
((((WhatsRight)))) Sending you strength, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40229 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Must Survive
♀ 34533
Member # 34533 | | Posted: 12:36 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
WhatsRight,
(((hugs))).
I have been where you are. You must prioritize.
Do everything rehab suggests. Your child is #1 in this situation. This is life or death issues.
Spend time when available with elderly parent. If they are ok mentally, explain that you have to focus on child, but you love them.
FTG as for you husband. He wants to quit, let him. It takes STRONG people to go through what you are and if he is not strong enough, then he is just sucking your power right now.
And in your spare time take care of yourself.
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
Posts: 1063 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive |
Allornothing
♀ 42354
Member # 42354 | | Posted: 12:52 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
(((WhatsRight))) sending prayers and strength your way
Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant
Posts: 333 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia |
Kelany
♀ 34755
Member # 34755 | | Posted: 12:55 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Oh sweetie
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 1:00 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
(((WhatsRight)))
Sending prayers and good thoughts.
Posts: 50564 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
OutoftheDeep
♀ 42601
Member # 42601 | | Posted: 1:04 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
((((What'sRight)))
My child was struggling with drug addiction also while my WS was going to strip clubs and having a possible EA with his co-worker. I know, it's totally hell. BTW he is better, no thanks to dh.
Come on God, we all need you around here!! Prayers to you from the bottom of my heart Whatsright. I am not a religious woman, but God helped me and he will help you too.
((((to your child What's Right))) Bless his or her heart.
Me - BW 40s
He - exWH 40s
2/15 Over. I had enough. I don't care anymore, and it feels awesome. He can have all the strippers, coworkers, and exes he wants now. Except now he doesn't think they're so appealing. Oh well.
Posts: 851 | Registered: Feb 2014 |
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306 | | Posted: 1:09 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
(((WhatsRight)))
Prayers said for you. Just do what you can and take care of yourself as well. There is only one of you. People will just have to deal with it. Child is #1, as someone else said.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Posts: 5593 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
WhatsRight
♀ 35417
Member # 35417 | | Posted: 7:05 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Thanks so much for all the responses.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Posts: 4571 | Registered: Apr 2012 |
LivinginLimbo
♀ 35004
Member # 35004 | | Posted: 7:15 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
((WhatsRight))
BS - 65
WH - 63
Married 37 years
D-Day 2/12/12
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.
Posts: 1245 | Registered: Mar 2012 |
confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826 | | Posted: 7:25 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
((((WhatsRight))))
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
Posts: 15220 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
Uhtred
♂ 40392
Member # 40392 | | Posted: 9:01 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sending all my might and positive thoughts your way.
Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”
Posts: 647 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas |
gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823 | | Posted: 11:52 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
{{{{WhatsRight}}}}
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 9188 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 12:13 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6708 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 4:58 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Count me in.
(((WhatsRight)))
fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.
Posts: 16576 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois |
Lola88
♀ 41540
Member # 41540 | | Posted: 8:07 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
You're in my thoughts and prayers xx
Posts: 131 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: UK |
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