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WhatsRight posted 3/8/2014 07:50 AM

Child is going into rehab.

Husband wants to give up on family - his words.

Elderly parent going downhill fast.

Trying not to lose my mind.

Just asking for prayers and/or good thoughts.

SisterMilkshake posted 3/8/2014 08:08 AM

((((WhatsRight)))) I am so sorry. That is a very full plate and seems you are the one who is always carrying it and trying to balance it.

refuz2bavictim posted 3/8/2014 08:11 AM

((WhatsRight))

I am sending you prayers for strength, peace and comfort.

scarednbroken posted 3/8/2014 10:32 AM

(((What'sright)))

blakesteele posted 3/8/2014 10:36 AM

(((Whatsright)))))

Specific prayer for you. And one for your family .

God be with us all.

nowiknow23 posted 3/8/2014 12:31 PM

((((WhatsRight)))) Sending you strength, honey.

Must Survive posted 3/8/2014 12:36 PM

WhatsRight,

(((hugs))).

I have been where you are. You must prioritize.

Do everything rehab suggests. Your child is #1 in this situation. This is life or death issues.

Spend time when available with elderly parent. If they are ok mentally, explain that you have to focus on child, but you love them.

FTG as for you husband. He wants to quit, let him. It takes STRONG people to go through what you are and if he is not strong enough, then he is just sucking your power right now.

And in your spare time take care of yourself.

Allornothing posted 3/8/2014 12:52 PM

(((WhatsRight))) sending prayers and strength your way

Kelany posted 3/8/2014 12:55 PM

Oh sweetie

jo2love posted 3/8/2014 13:00 PM

(((WhatsRight)))

Sending prayers and good thoughts.

OutoftheDeep posted 3/8/2014 13:04 PM

((((What'sRight)))

My child was struggling with drug addiction also while my WS was going to strip clubs and having a possible EA with his co-worker. I know, it's totally hell. BTW he is better, no thanks to dh.

Come on God, we all need you around here!! Prayers to you from the bottom of my heart Whatsright. I am not a religious woman, but God helped me and he will help you too.

((((to your child What's Right))) Bless his or her heart.

nekorb posted 3/8/2014 13:09 PM

(((WhatsRight)))

Prayers said for you. Just do what you can and take care of yourself as well. There is only one of you. People will just have to deal with it. Child is #1, as someone else said.

WhatsRight posted 3/9/2014 07:05 AM

Thanks so much for all the responses.

LivinginLimbo posted 3/9/2014 07:15 AM

((WhatsRight))

confused615 posted 3/9/2014 07:25 AM

((((WhatsRight))))

Uhtred posted 3/9/2014 09:01 AM

Sending all my might and positive thoughts your way.

gonnabe2016 posted 3/9/2014 11:52 AM

{{{{WhatsRight}}}}

Kajem posted 3/9/2014 12:13 PM

Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.

sisoon posted 3/9/2014 16:58 PM

Count me in.

(((WhatsRight)))

Lola88 posted 3/9/2014 20:07 PM

You're in my thoughts and prayers xx