There’s a place my WS goes a few times a year to sell junk he’s collected, always without out me. I was ok with that. He was getting ready to go there again & I decided to tag along so we could have a little extra time together.
When we were finished & checking out, the girl stated she was new & needed help. After she got the help from a coworker as she was finishing our paperwork, my H asked, “Where did you work before.” He continued to make light conversation with her, based on the stuff he was selling. She mentioned that knowledge of her H job, helped her with this job. So he asked what her H did, did it pay well, blah blah blah …… questions that intertwined business & personal information.
In the past I would have just saw that as friendly conversation, but now I’m wondering if he was fishing right before my eyes. Am I just paranoid? How can I tell the difference?