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DTERMINED2SURVIV posted 3/8/2014 14:43 PM

Not really, I love them. Just not this one. Im tired of alllllllll day being happy to sad to mad! I KNOW he can do MORE! He says im not appreciative of what he's changed....WHATEVER!I am happy, but i deserve those changes, and i EXPECT THEM. Even the most minute which is where were at now. Youve accomplished all the big things, but now its the little....and they mean a lot. Here he is though, "I dont go out anymore, I dont have "any friends"(which is bullshit, he has plenty just no girls poor baby), I just sit at home all day" Well guess what, I DONT GO OUT, I DONT HAVE MALE FRIENDS AND WHEN IM NOT AT WORK I JUST SIT AT THE HOUSE AND TEND TO OUR FAMILY! Same shit as you just that your unemployed and I am not. But instead of looking at the time im at work as good for our family you look at it for how bored you are....Your mad at me for areas in your life that are not my fault. Its easier for you to think that I hold you back instead of just admitting the choices you have made have made you unhappy. Your lucky to have me, and honestly im lucky to have you! You are my bestfriend...

I just re-read this..im mad as hell at the beginning but after i vent it out, im back to...oh baby, i love you sheesh!

Breezy150 posted 3/8/2014 16:21 PM

Sounds like a normal day in my life too. This kind of roller coaster sucks, but it does slow down with time.

phoenixrise posted 3/9/2014 01:02 AM

I feel your pain this morning I was thinking attorney...pretty soon I will text message him some sappy hello bit which later I will think he didn't deserve...the rollercoaster of pain!lol