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User Topic: Another first date last night
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It actually went really well. I was my usual nervous and neurotic self. He was very nice, and I really like him. We met at a really casual place for wings, and stayed to talk for a couple of hours.

I'm not sure what to think, because he's quite a bit younger than me, and in a different place in life. However, he was intelligent, mature, well read, and ambitious.

It was the most "normal" date that I've ever had. I guess that's a sad commentary on my life. Great kiss at the end of the date.

The best part : I got carded. Hey, I realize that they must card everyone, but I'm taking it for what it is and calling it an overall good night!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7821 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brave woman, wings on a first date. I'd be wearing them...

He sounds nice. And *normal*.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17709 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Normal is good; I'm happy for you.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20456 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
phmh
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's nice to have a good one sprinkled in every once in a while to keep up hope -- glad you had a nice time!!!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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travels
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with FaithFool wings + me = a mess.

Normal is alway wonderful.


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

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MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you had fun, normal is always good:) what is carded?


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 476 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
persevere
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you WM.

Even if the differences, esp place in life, mean the romantic part doesn't work out having a good friend come out of it wouldn't be all bad. And the experience reminds you what a "normal" date should be.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4672 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MyVoice, carded is checked for ID. The drinking age in my stTe is 21. I'm 45. I think they're supposed to card anyone that appears to be under 30.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7821 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah!!!


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4231 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds great! Good for you!


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

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Why??
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-hoo! Spring is springing


"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But the real question is, does he have respectable taste in beer?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you. I guess there is hope.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2476 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for a great first date! Any plans for a second date??

I love it when I get carded!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4224 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, there are plans for a 2nd date.

He wanted to see me yesterday, but I told him that I just want to ease into this a bit and take our time. He was OK with that, but has been randomly texting, so that's fine.

It's funny because I want a relationship, just not a 24/7 all consuming one. I think it projects that I'm not interesting in a relationship.

I tried to explain to him that I don't really know what I want, but I know for sure what I DON'T want. It's a learning process for me.

He asked me about my worst date ever, so I told him about my date with Captain Coupon. At least that date had some value to make us both laugh.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7821 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
better4me
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad it went well!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3236 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And an update:

Seeing him again tonight. He's bringing steaks to my house. He said he would cook if I provide the grill.

Yikes. I'm nervous.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7821 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
cmego
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Make sure there is a bit of alcohol so you will relax and be your wonderful self

Have fun!


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4231 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
cayc
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A man is bringing his meat to your house. Heh! Sorry I couldn't resist!

Have fun tonight!

[This message edited by cayc at 1:11 PM, March 14th, 2014 (Friday)]


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

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