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Flatlined123 (original poster member #35862) posted at 8:45 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Finally! Maybe this will help. I've had enough ultrasounds, blood tests and exams for awhile.
End diagnosis is that there is a suspicious thickening in the lining of my uterus. They are going to do a hystascope, biopsy and D&C.
Uterine cancer does not run in my family, but I'm terrified. It just seems like we're getting our life back on track and now this.
Then I start thinking things like what if I don't wake up from the anesthetic.
Can I please ask everyone to just take a moment on Tuesday morning and say a prayer for me? I need your good ju-ju coming my way. Thanks.
Me: BS H: WS4 kids DD #1 7-11-08DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.Started R in 12-09"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."
JaneDeaux ( member #42630) posted at 8:54 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 9:04 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:06 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
((((Flatlined)))) Sending you strength, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Chicky ( member #18622) posted at 9:18 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Of course. Think positive - you WILL be fine!
Givers need to set limits because takers never do. THIS GIVER DID and because I stood my ground, we are happily RECONCILED!
brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 9:40 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Sending a prayer for you now and on Tuesday. Feel free to tell the anesthesiologist that you are very nervous. They can give you something to help you.
Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
Newme123 ( member #41119) posted at 9:43 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Absolutely. Will pray that everything goes well.
Me-BS 33, him-WH 31
Dday 10-30-12 the day before Halloween
Married 10 yrs
DS-14, DD-9, DS-2, DD-5m
Currently trying to R
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 9:59 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Thinking of you....stay positive!
Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 10:30 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
mainlyinpain ( member #39134) posted at 10:32 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Hugs to you honey, let us know how you are doing afterward.
Pamper yourself and try to think positive thoughts.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:15 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Sending hugs and prayers.
StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 11:17 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Absolutely. Prayers will be coming your way. Try to think positive!
Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 11:25 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Thoughts and prayers are with you
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 12:11 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
sending good thoughts to you
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
Lola88 ( member #41540) posted at 2:05 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Sending you prayers and strength xxx
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 7:07 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is difficult but try to remain calm and positive.
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Neverwudaguessed ( member #41884) posted at 11:43 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Will be sending positive energy your way. Good luck; we will all be thinking of you <3
BW: 46 Me
WH:50
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 14 1/2 years ago for 2 or 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 15
DD 13
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 12:22 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
(((Hugs)))
Just changed the label on my alarm for tomorrow morning to remind me to pray for you.
Anesthesia is scary for us, as patients, but remember that if the anesthesiologist thinks there is even the *slightest* chance you won't wake up, he/she isn't putting you to sleep. Period.
Take care of yourself. Let people help you.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
TooManyYears ( member #26108) posted at 12:24 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Me- 42
H- 48 -
Married 23 years
Last D-day 9/19/09 (Many before this)
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 1:05 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Absolutely I will be praying for you!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
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