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User Topic: We moved!!
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We finally got out of battered women shelter into our Aprtment yesterday yay! We are getting there. :)

Question we have direct path as our internet with only 1.0 Mbs download and is very slow but it is all they offer. Any suggestions for any air card or wireless internet that might be faster. Ugh.

Our tv man comes to install tv tomorrow but we only have a tiny 22 inch tv for living room so I like to stream from my laptop in bedroom but at this Rate. Lord how way can I do thAt.

But we are in a secure apartment with alarm and out of shelter and final on our way to normalcy. Yay! ) I hope!

Posts: 111 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Georgia
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - BS; 36
Him - WH; 35
Married - 16 years
2 Kids - Ages 3 and 6
DDay - 2/26/14

Posts: 55 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Ohio
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Default  Posted: 2:25 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, Teeghan! I have no advice on the internet situation, but I wanted to wish you and your kiddos well.

In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

Posts: 8023 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news!!


Me - 52; FWH - 54
Married 34 years 9/2/17
2 grown daughters-33 & 30
8yo GS,4yo GD & 3yo. GD (DD33) and 5 yo GD & 1 yo GD(DD30). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 6242 | Registered: May 2007
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the new home front. At least the weather is getting nice now, and the time in front of the TV computer will naturally decrease.

We live in the boonies, and until High Speed was available we had a sprint card. It worked fairly well. Although it still was not as fast as the High Speed. But as I recall it was not cheap either.

Him: FWS
Kids: 18 & 20
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 13422 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! Wishing you a safe, happy future

Not much help on internet issues, though - don't own a tv (and love it lol) and am in UK, so no good for you!

Peace and light to you and your family.

Me 46 (BS) Him 54 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
His addiction is more important than me...and him. Divorcing.

Posts: 382 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is really great news!!! I'm so proud of you for hanging in there and continuing to do the right thing! You deserve to feel proud!

DD-March 2010

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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know about the internet, but I am so glad to hear that you have your own place and are moving forward in such a great direction!

BS-me, 55; WX-irrelevant
Divorced after an eternity
"So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tenn

Posts: 15345 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad that you're getting your own SECURE place! May I suggest that you go to Best Buy and talk to one of their sales people? I love Best Buy. Their employees are not on commission, so they don't have the SELL THEM SOMETHING pressure on them, they are usually very tech-savvy, and willing to work with the customer.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 10176 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the move! So glad to hear you are in an apt. now.

On the air-card or other, I'd avoid these as they are usually very expensive if you go over the caps and most have too low caps if you plan to stream video.

i.e. a 4G card might be $90/month, but if you go over 2GB of bandwidth, it gets pricey for every MB you go over... and you'll eat through 2GB rather quickly if you plan to stream video/audio.

DirecPath is slow but cheap. Your only option may be to see if you are near enough to the roof or have any windows in near path to hang a dish... that is if your complex allows this. You can generally get around 10mbps with dish internet and they have good TV bundles too.

Good luck!

BS (ME): 44
WS(HER): 42
9 years
OM#1- 20-something loser, stole bunch of my things after she had sex with him in our bed (no condoms, STDs)
OM#2- 24 year old, unemployed loser, lives with mom & dad
DDay 1/2012
NC 3/20/2012
SGASDay 4/1/2012

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