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User Topic: Got some mojo to spare?
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I posted about three weeks ago about receiving a great job offer in another state... I finally decided I'm going to go for it. Ack!

I contacted my attorney; she helped me word an email to ex-asshat to let him know of my intentions. He has 10 days to respond and file something with the court. She said in light of the facts (no CS for over five years; a job offer that will better support the bunch; bananas he never sees and by now, who want nothing to do with him; him violating our MSA by moving 17 times and only notifying me a few times, including an out of state move and not telling me until he was driving there), even if he did decide to drag me into court, he wouldn't have much of a leg to stand on.

Day one is down... if you could send some mojo so the next nine go as well, that would be great. The bunch and I are on pins and needles waiting!

Thank you!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15449 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOJO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not sure how good my mojo is, but I'm pulling for you and hoping for the best


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20557 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loads of mojo headed your way!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6737 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
thyme2go
♂ 12908
Member # 12908
Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

M O J O !!!

Much luck!

-t2g


BH - no longer 49
3 DD's - (29, 25 and 18)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9200 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending tons of mojo your way, WB!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7863 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:22 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are sooooo not getting out of hosting a G2G by moving.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1764 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 4:40 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo sent

Hope he keeps quiet for you to get the green light to go. Best of luck.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1405 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Amazonia
♀ 32810
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Default  Posted: 6:40 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo mojo mojo!!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13933 | Registered: Jul 2011
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOJO, MOJO - nine days' worth!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2580 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo

You are sooooo not getting out of hosting a G2G by moving.

and this ^^^^^


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53328 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Major mojo!!! Fingers and toes crossed for you and the bunch.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26489 | Registered: Aug 2011
wildbananas
♀ 10552
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't worry...the Avocadhead g2g will prevail!

Thanks all!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15449 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad that you decided to go for it!

Mojo!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7865 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
cmego
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy you are going for it too!!

MOJO.


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4283 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You've got it all, nanners.

In bunches!

Geez, when I read about what an ass this guy has been, I can't imagine any judge saying no.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21117 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Mapleleaf4ever
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck. Go for it.


ME-BH (52)
HER-WW (52)
Married 16 years,
together 20years
One beautiful daughter.
DDay #1 - 06 Apr 2011 EA
DDay #2 - 01 Feb 2012 PA

Posts: 51 | Registered: Oct 2012
better4me
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mojo sent!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo all the way!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo. I'm so proud of you for having the courage to do this for you and your girls!


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3578 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
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