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wildbananas (original poster member #10552) posted at 5:38 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
I posted about three weeks ago about receiving a great job offer in another state... I finally decided I'm going to go for it. Ack! 
I contacted my attorney; she helped me word an email to ex-asshat to let him know of my intentions. He has 10 days to respond and file something with the court. She said in light of the facts (no CS for over five years; a job offer that will better support the bunch; bananas he never sees and by now, who want nothing to do with him; him violating our MSA by moving 17 times and only notifying me a few times, including an out of state move and not telling me until he was driving there), even if he did decide to drag me into court, he wouldn't have much of a leg to stand on.
Day one is down... if you could send some mojo so the next nine go as well, that would be great. The bunch and I are on pins and needles waiting!
Thank you!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:55 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
MOJO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 6:02 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
I'm not sure how good my mojo is, but I'm pulling for you and hoping for the best
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 6:14 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Loads of mojo headed your way!
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
thyme2go ( member #12908) posted at 6:16 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
M O J O !!!
Much luck!
-t2g
BH - no longer 50
3 DD's - (32, 28 and 21)
Divorced on 8/6/09
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:00 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Sending tons of mojo your way, WB!
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:22 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
You are sooooo not getting out of hosting a G2G by moving. 
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 10:40 AM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Mojo sent 
Hope he keeps quiet for you to get the green light to go. Best of luck.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:40 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Mojo mojo mojo!!!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 1:12 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
MOJO, MOJO - nine days' worth!!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:46 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Sending mojo
You are sooooo not getting out of hosting a G2G by moving.
and this ^^^^^
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:58 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Major mojo!!! Fingers and toes crossed for you and the bunch. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
wildbananas (original poster member #10552) posted at 2:36 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Don't worry...the Avocadhead g2g will prevail!
Thanks all!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:49 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
So glad that you decided to go for it!
Mojo!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 3:26 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
So happy you are going for it too!!
MOJO.
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 3:29 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
You've got it all, nanners.
In bunches!
Geez, when I read about what an ass this guy has been, I can't imagine any judge saying no.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Mapleleaf4ever ( member #37090) posted at 3:34 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
ME-BH (52)
HER-WW (52)
Married 16 years,
together 20years
One beautiful daughter.
DDay #1 - 06 Apr 2011 EA
DDay #2 - 01 Feb 2012 LTA (4 yrs)
Divorced- Nov 2014
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:48 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 3:57 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 5:07 PM on Monday, March 10th, 2014
Sending mojo. I'm so proud of you for having the courage to do this for you and your girls!
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
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