Thanks for the rsponse because I'm angr and confused. He tried to tell me last night that all he's done is try to do things for me like...clean up around the house, bring home flowers, put laundry away.
Well, imo, those are things a "partner" should be doing anyway not doing them as a way of winning me back. He's that freaking clueless.
As for his mother his comment last night was that it was unfortuante that I was up here(top of a hill) at my breaking point with his family when they were down here(in the valley) starteing to "get it" that they can't babysit my kids and override my choices as a parent.
That isn't coming to an understanding in my pov. That's flat out saying that they disapprove of how I parent, and allowing my child benadryl and zyrtec is clearly the juice of the devil in my MIL's eyes.
I just can't live like this but getting out isn't going to be easy. I need to talk to an attorney where we used to live. I feel like a live in a trapped cage. Well, I do. I can't live my life the way I'd like to live it.
Married 11...he forgot our anniversary among other things. Every birthday, holdiay, whatever is forever ruined.
Together 17 years
Two great kids.
He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother is going to