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GotPlayed posted 3/10/2014 14:16 PM

Wish me luck!

nowiknow23 posted 3/10/2014 14:27 PM

Sending mojo and luck your way, GP!

Gemini71 posted 3/10/2014 14:30 PM

Prayers and positive thoughts coming your way.

5454real posted 3/10/2014 14:31 PM

good luck and Mojo brother.

devistatedmom posted 3/10/2014 15:11 PM

Luck!!!

GabyBaby posted 3/10/2014 15:56 PM

Good luck!!!

StillLivin posted 3/10/2014 16:37 PM

Good luck. Let us know what happens!

grownapair posted 3/10/2014 16:41 PM

Good luck!

jo2love posted 3/10/2014 16:48 PM

Good luck. Sending mojo.

Freeme posted 3/10/2014 19:09 PM

Good luck!! Hope it goes well for you.

careerlady posted 3/10/2014 19:47 PM

Been crossing my fingers for you today! Report back!

dmari posted 3/10/2014 19:49 PM

Good luck!! Will be thinking of you!

GotPlayed posted 3/11/2014 00:22 AM

Hi everyone, so it went smoothly! I guess the prospect of a social worker asking about her FOO issues made her very reasonable. We decided on 50/50 custody and agreed. I was able to add language making it impossible for jailbird to be alone with my kids.

I took her to dinner afterwards (I hadn't talked to her since Jan, so I thought it was appropriate since she behaved so well). We talked a bit. She says she doesn't see OM but still texts with him. That she hates him but still took care of his dog because he asked her to.

She was very afraid I'd go after full custody and that I was going to blast her at the meeting or disagree wantonly. I told her that wasn't my intention, but the texts OM sent seemed to have the intent to make her lose the kids by forcing my hand to go for full custody (at leas that's how I interpreted them). I didn't give her any details but left it at that. She's a bit paranoid, since all she got was second and third hand information. I have been as consistent as I can myself, but she wasn't hearing any of it. She seems calmer now.

We talked about the kids, a bit on the plans for housing for both of us (I avoided specific on finances other than the regular bills), and her plans for a job (she is looking for one - yay!). Now the next part is the tough one - the separation of assets and supports..

But at least the custody is done, and there was no major disagreements. We signed and we're on to the next one!

Thank you for your prayers and thoughts everyone!

dmari posted 3/11/2014 00:49 AM

Thank you for stepping by and giving us an update! I'm sure you are emotionally exhausted. I'm so happy things went well for you!

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